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The Biggest Pain for Younger Wife and Older Husband Marriages? 3 Women Speak the Truth

As society evolves, people are becoming more open about their relationships. At the same time, some are more accepting in how they approach relationships. In the past, it was common for young couples to get married. Nowadays, a young woman can marry an older man. Many say women marry older men for money, but some do it for love. Regardless, a woman marrying a significantly older man faces her own pressures.

March 27, 2025 2 min read

Grandma Says: Giving Dowry is Necessary, and the Real Beneficiary of Marriage is the Man

Marriage and whether to give dowry have always been a controversial topic. Most men are against it, thinking it’s the 21st century and women advocate for equality, so why is equality suddenly not mentioned when it comes to marriage? On the other hand, women believe that dowry represents respect and sincerity from the man’s family, and it’s a form of security for themselves. Through dowry, they can see if the man’s feelings are genuine.

March 26, 2025 5 min read

How to Judge Whether a Girl Wants to Chat with You?

Have you ever experienced such an awkward chat? Me: Merry Christmas, girl, any plans? Her: None. Me: What do you usually like to do? Her: Sorry, I’m very busy. …And that was the end. Didn’t she just say she had no plans? Why is she busy? Is chatting really this difficult? Awkward, isn’t it, guys. A woman’s heart is like the bottom of the sea, leaving you wondering: When will she enjoy chatting with me? Let’s talk about when girls want to chat and when they want to be quiet!

March 23, 2025 7 min read

The Woman Who Can Enter a Man’s Inner “Secret Chamber” Will Make Him Love Her Deeply

In most people’s hearts, there is a secret room where they store things they don’t want to share with others. Maybe it’s a painful memory, maybe it’s something that makes them feel ashamed, or maybe it’s an unhealed wound. Whatever it is, it’s something they want to escape from. These secret rooms are hidden deep within their hearts, even from their closest friends. Some people might think that since these are things others don’t want to share, we should respect their choice and let time slowly erase them.

March 22, 2025 4 min read

“Habit” is a Great Noun that Can Replace All the Unutterable

I once received a message from a friend. She said: As a person born in the 90s, for the first time, I strongly desire to remain single, not wanting to be someone’s wife, daughter-in-law, dealing with unavoidable social obligations. I don’t want to cook for anyone or overthink because of a tone or a look. I look down on those indifferent men who still hold onto outdated beliefs, thinking that men just need to sit back and relax, waiting to be served. If marriage in the 21st century is still like this, then I firmly believe in staying single. In this lifetime, I only want to be my parents’ daughter, earn enough to support myself, take care of them. That’s the ideal life for me.

March 21, 2025 5 min read

Do Men Miss Their Ex-wives After Divorce? Insights from Three Men

A few years ago, there was an advertisement slogan that said: “Fate is predetermined, but happiness is up to you.” Many people get together with someone due to fate, feeling incredibly happy and fortunate in the beginning. However, over time, things fade, and if a marriage isn’t nurtured well, it may come to an end. It’s often easier to conquer than to maintain, just like relationships. Sometimes, a simple gathering or trip can bring two people together. But staying together requires effort.

March 17, 2025 4 min read

Sustaining the Spark: Strategies for Prolonging the Honeymoon Phase

Embracing the Honeymoon Period: More Than Just Warmth Men need love in their lives, but they don’t constantly need to feel it like women do. For men, love is just a part of life, while for most women, it is their entire life. In the development of emotions, each person generally goes through four different stages: the honeymoon period, power struggle period, integration period, and indifference period. The honeymoon period is essentially the feeling of freshness, and maintaining this freshness is crucial. So, during this stage, the most important thing for women is not to invest, but to avoid the honeymoon pitfalls.

March 16, 2025 7 min read

Red Flags: When Your Boyfriend Shows These 3 Signs, He’s Definitely a Jerk

A lot of people move away from home to chase their dreams and get the life they want. Living on your own is hard. It’s tough to deal with the loneliness and boredom. When you get home from work, it’s cold and empty. You wish there was a warm meal waiting for you and someone you love at the table. Even if that’s not there, you just want someone to talk to, someone who cares about you, to make this strange city feel a little bit nicer.

March 15, 2025 4 min read

A Woman’s Habit of Showing Off in These Three Places When She Is Not Doing Well Is Always Wrong

The best state for a woman is having eyes full of stories but without any traces of hardships on her face. She puts on light makeup daily and wears clothes she likes. She doesn’t mock or envy others, nor does she depend on anyone. She quietly works hard, swallows grievances, and expands her horizons. She strives to live the way she likes! A woman who knows what she wants and works towards it daily will only get better.

March 11, 2025 5 min read

May You Meet Your Soulmate in This Life

We often find ourselves in certain situations but never truly pay attention to them—especially when it comes to emotions and marriage. What is love? What is marriage? What kind of love and marriage are we in? What kind of love and marriage do we hope for? These are probably questions we have never really asked ourselves or made efforts for our own happiness in love and marriage. When we are hurt in a relationship, where do we focus our attention? It’s crucial—many people remain trapped in a relationship because they overlook taking charge of their own lives and destinies, relying all their hopes on another person.

March 10, 2025 3 min read