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The High Price of a High Salary: Why I Chose Love Over Money

35-Year-Old Single Woman Confused: I Make $20,000 a Month, Why Am I Losing to a Girl Making $4,000? It’s normal to get married at the right age. However, some people in society miss the best marriage age, perhaps because they are busy with work and career, or for other unavoidable reasons, and become “leftover” singles. There are many reasons why older singles stay single. Besides not wanting to get married too early, they may also have some problems.

February 10, 2024 7 min read

Judging Whether a Man is Suitable for Marriage, Don’t Listen to What He Says, Just Look at These…

In life, there are many women who are suitable as partners but not as wives. Many men treat women exceptionally well during dating, but when it comes to marriage, they don’t choose these women. Men are more rational, so their criteria for choosing a partner differ from choosing a wife. Women often lose their direction in love, making it hard to differentiate between good and bad men. Sometimes, even if the man is not good, women choose him because they value emotions greatly.

February 9, 2024 4 min read

After Ending a Marriage, Choosing to Be Single or Pursue a New Relationship

When it comes to marriage, divorce is always a possibility. So, how do those who have gone through divorce view marriage and relationships? The best answer I’ve heard is this: I still wish happiness for those in happy marriages, but I am content with a single life. For those who have been divorced, they probably understand that marriage is just one way of life. Whether to divorce depends not only on fate but also on what kind of life one wants.

February 8, 2024 4 min read

Overcoming the Resentment Trap: A Crucial Step in Restoring a Relationship

Falling into this Pitfall while Trying to Salvage the Relationship Will Definitely Make the Other Party Ignore You Completely During the process of salvaging a relationship, there is a pitfall that, once fallen into, will absolutely drive the other party away from you. It’s just a matter of time. This pitfall is often triggered by the other party’s slight “indifference” towards you, and ultimately leads to the disintegration of the relationship.

December 27, 2023 6 min read

Three Weaknesses of Men, Women Should Avoid Touching, Men Will Be Devoted

Chernyshevsky said, “The meaning of love is to help each other improve, while also improving oneself.” In love, women tend to be more emotional, so they often can keep a clear mind in love. That’s why some people say women have zero IQ in love. When a woman’s IQ is zero in love, it means not only can she be deceived by men, but sometimes it can also be understood as: in love, a woman may do things that a man cannot understand, and because of these things, the man’s love for the woman will diminish.

December 26, 2023 5 min read

The One Who Truly Loves You Will Not Forget Their Promises to You

We all say that between two people in love, the most favorite thing to say is sweet nothings, and even some promises. In fact, the more deeply someone loves another person, the less likely they are to casually make promises, because they know that once a promise is made to someone, they must fulfill it, and not casually make promises that they cannot keep. If they can’t keep the promises they make, then what’s the point of those promises?

December 25, 2023 4 min read

3 Common Breakup Tactics Used by Scumbags, Girls Beware

What is a “scumbag”? According to the encyclopedia, it refers to a man who is selfish, good at taking, irresponsible, and plays with other people’s feelings. During the dating process, some women, due to bad luck, inadvertently encounter these immature, cowardly, and disrespectful men. The reason these men are called scumbags is not just hearsay. You can tell by their behavior and attitude when breaking up. When women want to break up, they generally do it decisively, clearly stating the reasons and ending the relationship. But scumbags may not say a word and simply disappear without a trace. They may not break up face-to-face or over the phone but instead inform the woman unilaterally via FB, saying “Let’s break up,” and then proceed to block her. If the woman asks “Why?” she receives a system prompt saying “You are no longer friends.” Scumbags like to use unclear attitudes. Women who can’t see through these men’s intentions may choose to wait because they’re reluctant to leave, only to be hurt deeply.

December 24, 2023 3 min read

Ten Tips for Long-Distance Relationships You Must Read

With the increasing diversity of communication methods, long-distance relationships are becoming more common. However, despite the advancement of communication, couples separated by distance still face obstacles. Long-distance relationships are high-risk and require more effort from both parties. This article provides ten practical suggestions for long-distance relationships, helping everyone understand the biggest challenges and risks and how to avoid and deal with them. Are You Suitable for a Long-Distance Relationship? Before entering a long-distance relationship, it’s best to consider if it’s suitable for you. Long-distance relationships are selective.

December 23, 2023 3 min read

From Estrangement to Father, Perhaps Another Kind of Fulfillment

I once read: “A father’s love is like a mountain, towering and intimidating, making people hesitant to climb; a father’s love is like the sky, broad and profound, making me look up and feel pity without daring to howl; a father’s love is like a river, slender and flowing, making me hesitant to wade.” I often hear people say “strict mother and stern father.” It’s because of the seriousness of the father that many people are close to their mothers but distant from their fathers.

December 22, 2023 5 min read

Don’t Rush into a Relationship with Someone Too Quickly

Let me tell you about a friend’s personal experience. This young woman, 28 years old, was under intense pressure from her family to get married. She happened to meet a man online, and after a period of enjoyable conversation, they decided to meet in person. After their meal, the man suggested going to a hotel. The young woman was hesitant at first, but she thought she was quite satisfied with the man in every aspect. She was afraid that if she refused, there might not be a future between them. After much consideration, she agreed.

December 21, 2023 5 min read