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Is He Really Into You or Just Faking It? It’s Not That Hard to Tell

Liu Yu once said something about love: Compared to the women I know, men are always more able to fall in love with a “laid-back” attitude. Women, on the other hand, are always in love with an attitude that makes you think of “blood and thunder,” like they’re ready to die for love, jump into a fire, and go down with the ship. They’re in love with a grand, glorious death.

October 11, 2024 6 min read

How to “Flirt” with a Middle-Aged Woman: A Three-Step Guide

John and Lily have known each other for three years. They were college classmates. After graduation, Lily quickly got married. But she wasn’t happy in her marriage. So after five years, she got divorced. Lily didn’t start another relationship after the divorce. John knew she was struggling, so he stayed by her side. Lily was very touched by his support. In college, John had asked Lily out, but she had turned him down because she was being stubborn. Now, she really appreciated John’s constant care.

August 12, 2024 4 min read

The Man Who Refuses to Share These Three Things with You is Pretending to Love You

Some time ago, I posted an article, and a friend commented: “As a woman, you must withstand lies, endure perfunctoriness, tolerate deception, forget promises, and finally use a smile to cover up the tears that fall. I’d rather believe in ghosts than believe in a man’s broken promises!” After seeing this comment, I felt relieved. Relieved that there are some women who are clear-headed in relationships. But I also felt a bit sad. Sad that there is still so little genuine emotion in this world!

August 11, 2024 5 min read

The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction

Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage. After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”

August 10, 2024 4 min read

How to Get Through the Bottleneck Period or Adjustment Period in a Relationship?

Managing the Transition from Romance to Companionship When a relationship moves from the passionate love stage to the adjustment period or bottleneck period, both parties may start to lose patience with each other’s flaws. As time spent together increases, so do conflicts and friction due to heightened dependence on each other, leading to frequent minor disagreements. How should this period be dealt with or resolved? First, let’s look at how the adjustment period and bottleneck period are defined. In his book “The Wisdom of Life,” Schopenhauer proposed the three basic elements that determine a person’s fate: What am I, what do I represent, and what do I possess? Based on this line of thinking, there are three fundamental questions that people need to answer in life: their relationship with the world, their relationship with others, and their relationship with themselves. Among these three questions, the relationship with oneself influences and dominates the relationship with the world and with others. When you enter into an intimate relationship with someone, this model needs to change. Your partner stands out from all other people, and “our relationship” becomes a new element in this model, with its position being equally important as “my relationship with myself.”

August 9, 2024 6 min read

The Unfiltered Voices of Women: Understanding the Dynamics of Extramarital Affairs

Why Do Women Have Extramarital Affairs? Listen to Their Truth! Understanding the Reasons Behind Women’s Infidelity in Marriage Marriage is the union of love and intimacy. If a woman marries a man she loves and leads a happy life, she won’t want to betray him. When a woman has an affair, it’s often because she feels neglected by her husband, thinks he no longer loves her, or is disappointed in the marriage.

August 8, 2024 4 min read

Most of the Time, We Like Someone Because of Our Own Flaws

The Pitfalls of Seeking Love to Fill Inner Emptiness In this world, only a very few relationships are based on the mutual attraction and growth of two independent and healthy individuals. Most people like someone because of their own troubles and flaws. For example, loneliness, deprivation, the need for rescue, or seeking parental figures. When unable to handle these issues, they seek someone to escape or fulfill themselves. And then, troubles continue to arise.

August 7, 2024 5 min read

When a Man Ignores You, Ignore Him Back, and Watch Him Flinch

Sukhomlinsky once said, “True love requires not only love but also mutual insight into each other’s inner world.” Love is not a solo act. Loving someone more doesn’t guarantee they’ll love you back equally. Just loving someone isn’t enough to keep their heart. Sometimes, a little strategy is needed to understand their thoughts and capture their heart in the right way. When a woman falls deeply in love with a man, her biggest fear is him changing his mind and leaving. After all, he can just walk away, but she can’t unlove him.

August 6, 2024 5 min read

The Couple Who Can’t Get Along But Can’t Leave Each Other, Let’s Do This

In “Fortress Besieged,” it is said: “Marriage is like a fortress, with people outside wanting to get in and those inside wanting to get out.” Before marriage, looking into each other’s eyes was all about brightness, but after marriage, it’s all impatience. Before marriage, the couple experienced romance and many adventures together; after marriage, the daily grind weighed them down. Single people long for marriage, while married people yearn for the single life.

August 5, 2024 3 min read

6 Signs That a Man is Interested in You

Frequently Stares at You The eyes are the windows to the soul and the easiest way to reveal affection. When a man gazes at you affectionately, you should know that he likes you. Good friends don’t often look at you with tender eyes. These kinds of guys are usually very gentle. When you’re with them, you won’t have to go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. They are like sunshine in your life, bringing you warmth and happiness.

August 4, 2024 3 min read