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Let Go, Don’t Love Anymore, It’s Over
What does love mean to you? I think it’s a question worth pondering for each of us. Not long ago, a reader from our website sent me a letter, and this is what she wrote: My boyfriend and I have known each other for five years. We were college classmates, and after graduation, he went abroad for further studies, while I stayed in the country to work. Because of the distance, our communication became less and less, but we had planned to get married when he returned.
Why Are More and More People Unwilling to Get Married?
I was chatting with a few friends, and we started talking about marriage, kids, and retirement. Two of my friends are already married with kids. They both agreed on marriage, saying, “I’m married, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to get married. I’ve had kids, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to have kids.” Hearing this, the rest of us felt awkward. Those who were about to get married started doubting themselves, wondering if they should get married. Those who didn’t have a boyfriend thought it was actually pretty good being single.
Why Are You Still Single? 5 Reasons for Being Single
Many people say they’ve been trying for a long time but can’t seem to get out of being single. They’re confused about the reasons. Today, I want to list some common reasons among women for being single. There are many reasons for being single, and each person’s reasons are different. Often, we think it’s just a matter of not finding the right person, but there are often deeper reasons behind it.
Your Marriage Happiness Is Actually Determined Before Marriage
We often say that you should find someone with good marriage values to marry, but what does it really mean to have good values? Some people view marriage as a way to benefit themselves without giving back. They are like parasites in a marriage, only taking and not giving. Living with such people is exhausting, both mentally and physically. Marriage is something everyone should understand well. It’s based on emotions, which stem from liking each other. Many people get married without truly knowing each other’s values, especially about marriage and family.
The Greatest Hurt in a Relationship is not Losing, but Destroying Confidence
Understanding Emotional Trauma: Restoring Confidence After Betrayal in Relationships Waking up from a dream, I tried to go back to sleep, but it was futile. Finally admitting defeat, I checked my phone and saw it was 2 am. Insomnia at such a brain-burning stage was untimely. I commanded myself to sleep quickly, not wanting to waste the day feeling unproductive and watching time slip away. I remembered the dream I just had. The story was long and I forgot most of it, but I remembered a part before waking up. It seemed like I had just experienced something intense, and as I was heading back, I suddenly noticed my right thumb joint was broken in the dream. The bone protruded from the skin like a flat, pointed fishbone. Compared to the life and death situation just now, it seemed trivial. I tried to push the bone back in, but it kept coming out. I felt uncertain and asked the person next to me, “Should I find a doctor immediately?” He said yes. He was someone I trusted, so if he said yes, then I single-mindedly wanted to find a doctor. Then, I woke up.
The Biggest Difference Between “Wife” and Mistress in the Eyes of Men, It’s Too Real
Married men seem to have a common phenomenon: they think other men’s wives are good enough, but their own wives are worthless. People have a habit of coveting things they can’t have, so they always have a strong desire for things that are near but out of reach. Men like a woman because she can stir his heart but remains unattainable, which makes a man itch inside. Men are impulsive. They never forget what they want but couldn’t conquer. Their gaze rarely lingers on the women around them, but on those who have not yet become their prey.
Your Relationship with Your Mother Indicates Whether Your Marriage Will Be Happy
In family life, mothers and fathers play different roles. Mothers are gentle, while fathers are usually strict. It’s these differences that help shape our personalities. The sensitivity and gentleness of a mother are qualities worth learning from. The courage and resilience of a father are essential on the path to maturity. Therefore, the happiness of a family heavily relies on the combined efforts of both parents. Often, your relationship with your mother also indicates the potential happiness of your marriage.
The Dilemma of Betrayal in Relationships: Why Is It So Hard to Let Go?
On a practical and objective level, what causes the difficulty in letting go after emotional betrayal? 1. Reluctance to give up existing benefits: Betrayal, in a way, is a form of possessing a special interest relationship. This possession, though unethical, doesn’t pose much of a psychological barrier if one disregards morals. Without moral constraints, most people would not refuse betrayal because it benefits them psychologically, physically, and emotionally. Due to these existing benefits, they are unwilling to let go and especially not willing to do so voluntarily. The end of a betrayal relationship usually only occurs in two common situations: internal division or when the losses outweigh the gains.
10 Dating Advice for Guys
Here’s some dating advice for guys that will benefit you for a lifetime. Don’t rush into a relationship. As a pursuer, you should avoid hastily defining a relationship, as it may make the woman feel your intentions are impure. Take some time to observe a person. Value material compatibility. If you want to marry, stay away from those in the lower echelons of the city. Politely reject them. Use love as a tool to protect yourself. Find a practical woman. If you meet someone wealthier, talk about love, if they are poorer, discuss compatibility. If the other party’s family assets are tenfold larger, you’ve found true love.
Smart Ways for Women to Maintain a Happy Marriage
Unhappy people each have their own unhappiness, but happy people are always so alike. What are the commonalities among the couples who grow old together and spend their lives together? Have you observed any of these traits in the loving couples around you? Mutual Consideration The power of love is immensely great. It can turn ugly into beautiful, evil into good, emptiness into fulfillment, negativity into positivity, disappointment into hope, and backwardness into progress. Love is the most wonderful and desirable thing. When two people are together, they encourage each other in times of negativity, motivate each other in times of pessimism, and restrain each other in times of arrogance.
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