Dating, How Women Can Make Men Listen by Using the “Childhood Effect”

“When a woman knows a little bit about things, men like it. But if a woman is too knowledgeable, men may not like it.”

When men and women are dating, smart women know how to use some childhood effects to make men listen obediently.

Women Who Act Coquettishly Are Adored

When children do something that adults don’t like, adults get angry and the children act coquettishly to soften the adults’ hearts.

Similarly, when women are in a relationship with men, to make men listen obediently, it’s not necessary for women to be too dominant.

Some people always want others to submit to them in a relationship, but relationships are different.

In relationships, women must understand that if they do something that displeases men or want something from men that men don’t want to give, they can use a coquettish approach to get men to do it.

Some children in real life are very cute. When they do something that adults don’t like, instead of lying or throwing tantrums, they act coquettishly.

Even if these children make mistakes, those who know how to act coquettishly win adults’ favor, while those who don’t make adults dislike them more.

Cousin and her husband use this principle in their relationship.

Cousin is a homemaker, but she spends money recklessly. Sometimes she buys things and throws them away after a few days.

When her husband sees her throwing things away, he gets angry.

But when cousin goes over, holds her husband’s hand, and acts coquettishly, her husband doesn’t get angry at all.

Therefore, acting coquettishly like a child is a woman’s weapon, and some men like it.

Perhaps when women act coquettishly with men, men feel accomplished.

So smart women know to use coquettishness instead of being dominant, and men will obediently listen to them.

Behave Well in Front of Men, and Men Will Behave Well Toward You

Sometimes women need to behave well in front of men so that men will treat them well. Behaving well in front of men doesn’t mean women have to obey men like fools.

Women should know to behave well in front of men to give men some face.

Many children always care about their dignity. What seems ordinary to adults may be very important to children. Especially when a child embarrasses themselves in front of many people, they can’t get over it psychologically.

Men in the world also have this aspect, so women should understand this and learn to give men some face.

When women give men face, men feel very satisfied, just like happy children.

Therefore, smart women know what to keep at home and what to say outside to give men face. When men hold their heads high outside, women at home have a good life.

Women Acting Like Children Can Leave Men Helpless

Sometimes, when women act like children, men are left helpless.

Often, dominant women like to use force to make men submit, thinking that as long as they win over men, men will listen to them.

However, this only leads to temporary submission from men and not genuine respect.

Women should sometimes show vulnerability. When you show vulnerability, men feel protective of you.

Women should sometimes pretend not to know anything and let men help them like children. In such situations, men will be eager to help you with many things.

Many women act like they don’t need men for anything in front of men, appearing very mature. In this case, men will not come forward, and many things will not be shared with women.

Often, when women encounter difficulties and need help from men, men are not willing to help.

But if women show vulnerability and helplessness like a child, men will instinctively help them.

Women should remember never to show their dominance, as in the end, they are the ones who lose out.

Once, when chatting with friends, one of them said:

“I always act like a child in front of my husband, so he treats me with great affection.”

Therefore, smart women in front of men fully utilize the childhood effect, making men obediently listen to women.

And when women do this, men’s dignity is not hurt. Men will think that these women are smart and lovely.