Older Single Women Who Are Unwilling to Get Married, There Is Only One Reason
I once saw a saying online: “Not dating doesn’t mean no one is interested, it just means the right one hasn’t come yet, so I should wait cleanly and openly for him to appear.”
I resonated with this saying because those who treat relationships casually are the ones most serious about them. Often, not dating doesn’t mean we have no options, but rather we are waiting for that unique person.
Susan, 23 years old this year, still doesn’t have a partner. Neighbors would say, “Girl, you’re getting older, why not date a boy first? A girl’s youth is only a few years, not dating would be a waste.”
Every time Susan hears these words, she can only shake her head helplessly.
Despite the well-meaning words from neighbors, Susan is not moved because she believes love should not be settled for. There are indeed many boys pursuing her, but the one who truly makes her heart flutter and is worth it has not appeared.
Without a dating life, Susan spends most of her time at the dance studio besides work. She wasn’t trained professionally, but fueled by her love for dance, she has been dancing for 10 years. In her spare time, she dedicates more time to self-improvement, all in the hope that one day she can stand beside a boy cleanly and completely.
Someone once asked, “Isn’t your life lonely without dating?” But in response to others’ questions, she always smiles and says, “Not really, because I have things of my own to do. I work hard so that one day when I meet him, I can courageously open my arms to embrace him.”
Not dating doesn’t mean not wanting to date, just waiting for someone who understands you. Waiting for someone who understands your strength, who is willing to cherish and compromise, who is willing to unconditionally accept you, as long as it’s you in the end, it’s okay to wait a bit longer.
Some people enter marriage early, but it doesn’t guarantee happiness. Some are 30 and still unmarried but still have their own happiness.
Some always say, “My parents keep urging me to get married, but to fulfill their wishes, I am not always happy.”
Yes, a woman’s youth is only a few years, if it’s not lived to the fullest, it’s a waste. However, having a romantic relationship doesn’t guarantee a perfect life. If we haven’t met the right person, even if we force it, we won’t be happy.
People who don’t date much are actually more serious about relationships because they don’t want to start too early and end too quickly; their love is enduring.
Someone once said, “I’m grateful to my exes, one taught me how to be an obedient girl, the other taught me how to be a mature woman, but I’m most grateful to my current partner because he taught me how to be a child again.”
You see, love is something that happens unexpectedly. Only when we meet the right person does our life become more meaningful. If we date just for the sake of it, in the end, we lose the true essence of love.
When it comes to relationships, let’s not rush, let’s not settle, wait to meet someone who truly loves you, it’s never too late to open your arms and embrace them.
Some love may sound sweet, but only those who truly act on it really love you.
Live well, meet slowly, relationships that aren’t rushed are worth testing. If you can meet the right person, even if it’s a little later, it’s okay. People who don’t date much are waiting for that special person, someone who understands your strength and vulnerability, sees through your facade and sorrows, that’s the person worth loving.
What women want is actually quite simple, a man’s favor is enough to make them happy for a while. Don’t easily fall for someone, don’t casually start a relationship, when a man’s eyes are full of you, you can truly believe that he loves you.
Love is beautiful, so we should treat it seriously, don’t casually embark on a love adventure. Sincerity can only be given to one person, if given to many, it loses its value. Those who are persistent and serious about love will eventually meet someone special.
I also hope that every girl who doesn’t settle in love will eventually meet that special person, and I hope that no matter how long it takes, everyone will persistently believe in love, love may be late, but it will never be absent.
