Love Is a Test of Human Nature

Emotions are fluid, and a man’s affection for you is also fluid. It’s normal for his feelings to fluctuate over time. If you excessively view things in black and white in a relationship, always questioning whether he loves you, you’re undervaluing yourself. Expecting a partner to always provide a perfect experience is unrealistic. Just because certain behaviors don’t fully satisfy you doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you.

A man’s actions shouldn’t be solely categorized as loving or not. If he does something that displeases you, set boundaries and communicate. If there’s no adjustment, consider whether his behavior aligns with your values rather than jumping to conclusions about his love for you.

In a relationship, you should focus on value and benefits. If the value you receive diminishes, your emotional investment should decrease as well. Love is fluid, but value is tangible. Assess how much you’ve grown in the relationship and whether it brings you happiness and benefits.

A man’s repetitive behaviors in a relationship are enabled by your acceptance. Instead of spending time and emotions on him, focus on understanding yourself. Knowing your preferences and boundaries is key to finding happiness.

Focus on what you can control and enhance your emotional competence. Show confidence and let him know that he needs to behave or you won’t hesitate to move on. A relationship should bring joy, not internal conflict. You have options and shouldn’t settle for anything less than happiness.