Long-term Separation, Will Men Stay Loyal to Their Wives? Three Husbands Tell the Truth

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Long-term Separation, Will Men Stay Loyal to Their Wives? Three Husbands Tell the Truth

Recently during Valentine’s Day, many long-distance couples made plans to meet up.

At the flower shop, you could see men crowded with big bouquets, rushing to their distant lovers.

Not just at the flower shop, but also at the airport, many people were seen hurrying towards their partners with flowers in hand.

Seeing this, one can’t help but feel envious but also wonder: “Will men stay loyal to their wives in long-term separation?”

Some people, still in the first year of their relationship, received beautiful flowers on their first Valentine’s Day but broke up before the second one arrived.

Even married individuals have ended up divorcing. Promising eternal love with a ring during marriage, only to end up in court during divorce.

Long-term separation doesn’t just create beauty; it can also lead to unexpected things like betrayal.

Will men stay loyal to their wives in long-term separation? Three husbands reveal the truth:

Uncertain

The first husband admits anything could happen, and he’s uncertain about himself.

Currently, he hasn’t betrayed his marriage and considers himself fair and loyal to his wife. However, he can’t guarantee what might happen in the future.

Due to his busy work schedule, always stuck in the office, he rarely gets a chance to go out. Even if he has wandering thoughts, there’s no opportunity for them to manifest.

Because of work, he and his wife are separated. While their relationship wasn’t perfect before, it wasn’t bad either. But with the distance, taking that step is more likely now.

Whether he’ll act on these thoughts in the future remains unknown. His wavering will indicates a high chance of betraying his wife. In truth, he doesn’t love his wife much; otherwise, he wouldn’t speak this way.

Some people may not physically betray their partners but mentally detach and start looking at other women.

Those who won’t betray their wives never will. Some wait for the right moment, ready to seize it once it arrives.

Observing Wife’s Behavior

The second husband emphasizes observing his wife’s behavior. He admits to being somewhat honest and unlikely to do anything outrageous.

If he discovers his wife’s betrayal, he won’t immediately consider divorce. With elderly family members, children, and a sense of pride, he won’t let public humiliation drive him to divorce.

If his wife betrays him, he plans to retaliate by being unfaithful and not loyal anymore.

With all finances controlled by his wife after separation, he acknowledges her efforts and deeply loves her. If she acts against his wishes and criticizes him, it would break his heart.

Marriage requires mutual effort; if the wife betrays him, he sees no reason to remain faithful.

Therefore, women should also behave well and not be hypocritical. If both partners are loyal, the marriage can prosper.

A man won’t be loyal to a woman who isn’t loyal to him, and vice versa.

Snow believed her husband had many wives before, so she sought other men outside the marriage—a prime example.

Will Stay Loyal

The third husband vows to stay loyal. He understands his wife’s character and principles. If he betrays her, she would immediately seek divorce.

His wife has clear principles and boundaries, so he rarely challenges them. If he notices her discomfort, he stops, not out of fear but to maintain peace at home.

He believes a man’s true success isn’t in having many women but in having one woman devoted to him. She has her own personality, career, and thoughts but willingly gives everything for him.

This husband values and appreciates others. If a woman meets such a man, shows good behavior, he won’t disappoint her.

This husband, successful in his career and persistent in everything, shows his unwavering commitment to marriage.

Men are naturally fickle, unlike women who remain faithful. Men often desire younger women, but many persist in loving their partners, staying true to their initial feelings.

Men capable of handling long-term separation will remain loyal to their wives, while those who aren’t will eventually ruin the marriage.