If You Often Have 3 Three Feelings, Someone Might Be Secretly Crushing on You, Don’t Be Clueless
Love isn’t necessarily at its best during the passionate moments; it can also be in the hazy phase before both parties reveal their feelings.
Many people are timid in love. They dare not express their affections but instead keep that love hidden in their hearts, yet they subtly reveal traces of it in their interactions.
You can’t hide loving someone; even if you don’t say it, it will show in your eyes.
If you often have these three feelings, chances are someone is secretly crushing on you. Don’t be clueless and miss out on your true love.
One: Frequently Running into a Certain Person
Life isn’t a romantic drama; there aren’t that many coincidences. If you often bump into a certain person unexpectedly, have you ever thought that behind this coincidence, it might be that this person is too scared to confess their love?
Some people express their love very subtly and directly. Loving someone means wanting to see them and be with them all the time. So they will always create various opportunities to run into you, even if it’s just walking the same route or taking the same subway, it makes them feel sweet.
Many youth dramas have such plots: the male lead quietly waits for the female lead on her way to work and then pretends to coincidentally walk with her.
In these small gestures, what’s actually hidden is their full love for the female lead.
Each coincidence may be the result of someone’s silent efforts. When you find that there are always such coincidences around you and this person always appears around you unintentionally, you can carefully reflect on the bits and pieces of your time together. Perhaps you’ll discover the feelings he hasn’t voiced.
Two: Often Initiating Contact with You
If you truly love someone, you’ll want to contact them. No one can be indifferent to their loved ones.
In life, with every little thing you encounter, joy or hardship, or even just finding a stray cat on the roadside, you want the person in your heart to know about it.
Loving someone means wanting to find various reasons to connect with them. Even without a reason, they’ll create one and hope to communicate more with them. Feelings grow slowly through such interactions.
People’s time is precious nowadays. If someone doesn’t care about you, they won’t have so much time to chat with you for no reason. In fact, they just want to remind you of their presence in this way, make you slowly get used to their existence, and maybe ultimately stand by your side as your significant other.
You can check your chat records; the one who often initiates conversations is usually the one who ends the conversation. The one who initiates more in the conversation invests more in the relationship.
Love is about taking the initiative. If you don’t even have this courage, how can you get the love you want?
Three: Standing Up for You First When You Need Help
Do you have a friend of the opposite sex who, maybe you don’t interact with much, but whenever and wherever, they are always the first to step up when you need help?
There can be sincere friendship between friends, and they’re willing to go all out for you, but genuine pure friendship between opposite sexes is really rare. Like the lyrics say, “Those who are close friends are probably carrying love.” The boundary between this kind of friendship and love is sometimes very blurry.
People are selfish. Apart from close relatives, few people are willing to help you without expecting anything in return when you’re in trouble. Even good friends can do it once or twice, but being able to lend you a hand every time is very rare.
If someone always silently stands behind you, selflessly clearing obstacles for you and helping you through difficulties, it means you hold a unique place in their heart. Although they haven’t directly said it, their love is actually melted into the help they offer you.
You won’t fail to notice someone silently being good to you, it’s just that sometimes you’re unwilling to think in terms of love. Maybe it’s a lack of understanding, or maybe it’s a reluctance to face it.
But in any case, don’t deceive yourself and act like nothing has happened. If you have the same feelings for them, why not be a little brave and respond to them?
If you don’t feel that way about them, don’t continue silently accepting their kindness, indulging them to keep giving to you. That’s selfish.
There’s nothing wrong with not loving someone, but even if you don’t love them, please don’t hurt the person who has been secretly crushing on you all this time.
