If a Man Doesn’t Want to Share These with You, He’s Pretending to Love You
“People’s hearts are inscrutable!”
When you’re with someone every day, you never truly know what they’re thinking. Sometimes, what they say may not match what they feel.
In love, women also lack security. They fear that men may abandon them or that their love is insincere.
In a Thai drama called “Mermaid,” the supporting actress is afraid the male lead will leave her. She often asks him, “Do you love me? Say you love me.”
In reality, a man’s words to you may not be genuine. If you want to determine if a man loves you based on his responses, that’s not a practical approach.
A man who doesn’t want to share certain things with you is pretending to love you. You don’t need to test him; just let go.
Fidelity
“Love can’t tolerate a third party, unless the other person doesn’t love you.”
If a man truly loves a woman, he wouldn’t make her sad for someone else. Some men claim to love women deeply but hold hands with another woman as soon as she’s not around.
When a man loves a woman, he will feel guilty holding someone else’s hand, thinking of his woman. I once encountered such a man when I was young, now seen as a scumbag.
I held him in high regard due to my lack of dating experience. I obeyed him completely and cared for him deeply.
He claimed I was the one he loved the most and vowed to take care of me forever. I was blinded by his words and even quarreled with my parents for him.
A week after we parted ways, I visited him and found him with someone else. Witnessing that scene, my heart shattered. I cried in front of him, threw away the food I brought, feeling vulnerable and humiliated. Perhaps, I was merely a joke in his eyes, a deceived joke.
A woman should know if a man doesn’t give his all to you, regardless of his sweet words, he doesn’t truly love you.
Some women, foolishly, believe men’s apologies after betrayal. Men swear they won’t cheat again, and women believe them. A man who has betrayed you, unwilling to be faithful, doesn’t lack resistance to external temptations but rather lacks you in his heart.
You’ll realize later that so-called scumbags are merely those who haven’t found their true love. If you encounter a scumbag, it’s because he doesn’t love you, making him a scumbag.
Family Matters
If a man truly loves a woman, he envisions a lifetime with her, sharing everything at home. Before marriage, one should know about the other’s family. If one withholds family matters, it shows a lack of love.
Some people keep their partner in the dark about their family and vice versa. It’s like a hidden relationship; the woman is unaware of the man’s family, and his parents are oblivious to her existence.
When a woman meets such a man, it’s evident that if he can’t share openly, he doesn’t love her. A man who truly loves a woman desires her integration into his family, seeking his parents’ approval.
If a man discloses everything about his family, it indicates genuine love. However, if he conceals, it signifies hidden intentions, and the woman should be cautious.
Finances
Men often value money highly. While it’s said women love money, men also prioritize it as they are providers. Saving money offers security for the future.
Men enjoy sharing their money with their beloved. If a man hesitates to share finances when considering marriage, he might not be ready for that commitment.
Men trust and share their money with the woman they deeply love and trust. If a man withholds his money from a woman, it indicates a lack of love or a temporary relationship.
Phone
A man who truly loves a woman will be faithful and not engage with other women on his phone. If he has nothing to hide, he’ll gladly share his phone.
Many men who get defensive when their partner checks their phones may lead to breakups. If a man has nothing to hide, why fear his partner checking his phone?
Women may not want to check their partner’s phone, but a man’s defensiveness can spark curiosity, leading to snooping.
When a man refuses to share his phone, there might be hidden conversations. A man who loves a woman will be transparent about these four aspects. If a man’s love is insincere, he won’t share these with a woman, and she should be aware.
