If a Man Doesn’t Want to Give You These “Things”, Leave Him, He Doesn’t Have You in His Heart
Three Miao said:
“If what you give me is the same as what you give others, then I don’t want it.”
Loving someone is always about giving the best and most special things to each other. In reality, love is the true expression of emotions, and this expression often manifests in the sacrifices made for each other.
There are some men in life who say they love women, but when it comes to making sacrifices for them, they become extremely stingy. Many people attribute this to the male character.
In fact, in this world, personalities come in all shapes and sizes, but someone who truly loves you will never be stingy with you, and it has nothing to do with their personality.
If a man doesn’t want to give you certain things, it’s best to leave him, because it’s not true love.
Accompaniment
“Accompaniment is the longest confession.”
Sometimes you’ll find that even though we love each other, the time we can spend together is getting shorter and shorter.
At the beginning, two people are inseparable, but after the honeymoon phase, they gradually drift apart.
Accompaniment is the longest confession. If someone loves you, they will make time for you, no matter how busy they are.
In the eyes of someone who doesn’t love you, accompanying you becomes a task, and they’ll do it in a formulaic way, like checking in on you every two or three days.
But in the eyes of someone who loves you, they’ll accompany you whenever and wherever, because after two people have fallen in love, they both want to see each other, and accompanying you becomes a true expression of emotions.
Some women always feel like their husbands or boyfriends are spending less and less time with them. When they complain, their partners will say, “I’m not making money, you’re just waiting for me to provide for you.”
Men’s words can be very reasonable. Indeed, men are busy, but think about it—sometimes accompanying you isn’t a man’s task, but a manifestation of their love for you.
Some men think that accompanying you is a waste of their time, which means you’re not a priority in their dictionary.
Because people always leave the most important things for last, and the remaining time is left for those who come later.
As a woman, don’t be unreasonable. Don’t always ask your husband or boyfriend to accompany you. Someone who loves you will never be stingy with their time for you.
Money
“A comedy in life doesn’t need money to happen, but a tragedy often involves money.”
Money can create a relationship, but it can also destroy one.
Many people are together because of money, and many people break up because of money.
There are many women who aren’t materialistic, but because their men are very stingy, they eventually can’t take it anymore and break up.
There are many women around us who aren’t after money, but they want men to care about them, so they want small surprises on holidays.
So, the more a woman doesn’t care about money, the more disappointed she’ll be in the end, because what she wants isn’t money, but the man’s attention and care. If the two of you don’t celebrate holidays or anniversaries, the woman will think the man doesn’t love her.
In reality, if someone isn’t willing to spend a single penny on you, it means they don’t love you.
It’s like some people who are with a woman but still want to spend her money; such men are trying to deceive women’s emotions and take their money.
Women should avoid men who only want to spend their money but don’t know how to give.
Li Ao said:
“A successful husband is one who makes his wife’s money last; a successful wife is one who finds such a husband.”
So, as a woman, you can’t be too materialistic, but you can’t find a man who’s only after your money either.
Loyalty
When someone’s heart only has room for one person, their entire heart belongs to that person, and there’s no room for anyone else.
When a man’s heart only has room for one woman, that’s true love.
In this world, many men are promiscuous, but most men are still mindful of their boundaries. For those who are extremely promiscuous, it’s just that they haven’t met the woman they truly love yet; once they do, they might change their ways.
So, if a woman finds out that a man is cheating on her, it means he doesn’t truly love her. A man who loves you will never hurt you and will give you his loyalty.
Some men make mistakes in marriage or relationships, betraying their partners or wives. They’ll always say:
“Give me another chance, I made a mistake this time, and I won’t do it again.”
In reality, if someone betrays you once, it shows they never put you in their heart, because if they did, they wouldn’t dare to betray you.
A man who betrays his partner has already had the worst thoughts in his heart, and he’s willing to take the risk, which means he’s not afraid of losing the woman.
So, if a man can’t be loyal to you, it’s best to leave him.
Care
In life, we need other people’s care.
Men need women’s care, and women need men’s care.
No woman wants to become a little princess; women who become tomboys do so because no one takes care of them.
If a man won’t give a woman care, it means he doesn’t have her in his heart, just like how a woman needs a man’s protection, and when a woman loves a man, she feels like he’s like a father, needing his protection.
When a woman is loved by a man, he’ll feel the need to protect her, which is a true expression of emotions.
Loving a man is like wanting to be conquered and protected by him; loving a woman is like wanting to protect her. Sometimes when a woman has problems, the man will feel very sorry.
Dickens said:
“No one is worth your tears, and someone who makes you cry isn’t worth your love.”
As a woman, you should find a man who loves you. If a man doesn’t want to give you certain things, it means he doesn’t love you.
Although women can’t be too demanding, they can’t find a man who doesn’t care about them either.
