How to Test How Much a Man Loves You: Anger Reveals It All
Once on a show, an expert said: “To know if money matters to a woman, just date her once. To know if a man loves you, just make him angry once.”
Human nature can’t withstand tests. Don’t casually test someone, as love can’t withstand tests sometimes. If you’re not sure, don’t test a man.
Sometimes testing someone is simple. It can tell you how much a man loves you just by making him angry.
Getting Angry at You
Some people say: “Sometimes, it’s because of love that one gets angry with someone. But if someone is frequently angry with you, then you need to reconsider your relationship.”
Sometimes, it’s because of love that one cares and gets angry with someone.
If a person doesn’t love you, they might just ignore you and wouldn’t get angry with you.
But everything has its limits. If someone frequently gets angry with you, even disregards your feelings, and often does things that hurt you, then you need to pay attention.
I have a close friend who fell for a guy.
Because this guy liked to get my friend angry, her family didn’t approve of their marriage. When he got angry, he would smash things at home and even hit my friend.
One time, while chatting with my friend, she tearfully said to me: “Even though he often gets angry, he tells me he loves me.”
A man who truly loves a woman wouldn’t want to get her angry, at least not frequently, let alone resort to violence.
Men sometimes use sweet words to win a woman’s favor, and women are easily deceived.
In reality, women shouldn’t just listen to what a man says. Instead, they should observe how a man behaves when he’s angry with them, and the frequency of his anger. This will reveal how much a man truly loves them.
If a man truly loves a woman, he might get angry with her at times. But he wouldn’t do it frequently, and most certainly wouldn’t resort to violence.
If a man hits a woman for the first time, he’ll do it again the second and third time. Once violence starts, it’s hard to stop.
The Man Will Come to Comfort You
If a man loves a woman, when she’s angry, he will feel very sorry for her.
When a man sees a woman angry, his first thought isn’t about why she’s angry, but about how he can make her feel better.
Some men even feel very guilty, thinking they did something wrong that made the woman upset.
An aunt once told me: “A man who loves you will come to comfort you when you’re angry, while a man who doesn’t love you will just get even angrier.”
Women naturally want men to comfort them, but some men use sweet words to win women’s favor, yet can’t make them happy when they’re angry.
A real good man isn’t someone who never bows down to a woman, but someone who feels sorry for her when she’s angry.
In the past, society was very traditional, so if a man bowed down to a woman, many people thought he was weak, or afraid of his wife.
But with the development of society, a man who knows how to comfort his wife when she’s angry is a good man.
This kind of man truly loves a woman, which is why he comes to comfort her.
The Man Thinks You’re Being Unreasonable
Many women say: “Every time I get angry, I hope to make him change, but he often says I’m being unreasonable.”
My situation is similar to the above statement.
Sometimes, I’m very dissatisfied with how my boyfriend handles things. When I try to talk to him about it, he doesn’t listen. So sometimes, I feel things are getting serious, and I get angry. At this point, he thinks I’m being unreasonable.
So, I’m very tired in this relationship. I live in agony every day because everything I say seems wrong in his eyes.
Sometimes, when I kindly remind him, he thinks I’m being too clever. Seeing his attitude, when I get angry, he thinks I’m being unreasonable.
So, no matter what I do, he thinks it’s my fault.
Finally, we broke up. At this point, he started pursuing me again, but this time, I don’t plan to get back with him. However, seeing him sad, I softened.
But this time, after we got back together, he changed everything. He doesn’t see my anger as me being unreasonable anymore. When I’m angry, he looks for the reasons within himself. There’s a saying that goes: “You only cherish what you’ve lost.”
Because he lost me once, he now understands how good I am. So, when he got me back the second time, his love for me deepened. When he didn’t love me as much before, he always thought my anger was me being unreasonable. But after losing me, he understood my importance, and when he won me back, his love for me deepened, so he learned to look for the reasons within himself when I’m angry.
A man who doesn’t love you enough might think you’re being unreasonable when you’re angry. But if he loves you deeply, even if you’re being unreasonable, he will look for the reasons within himself.
In the end, women don’t ask for much in life. In the end, material possessions like cars and houses are just external things. The most important thing is a man’s kindness toward a woman.
