How to Tell If a Man Loves You: Look for These Signs During an Argument
We all dream of love that’s sweet, happy, and makes us feel excited. But we should also know that love includes happiness, but it’s not just happiness.
Like Francis Bacon said, “Love is often a comedy, but sometimes a tragedy.”
Even the most loving couples will run into problems or things that are hard to solve. These roadblocks can lead to arguments and fights.
A lot of times, couples don’t fight because of big, hard-to-solve problems. Sometimes, it’s just about little things.
It can be hard to understand why two people who love each other get upset over small things or don’t trust each other.
Isn’t that what love is about? It’s like looking at a mountain and not seeing a mountain, or looking at water and not seeing water. A small thing can be blown out of proportion by love, making you think too much, overthinking, and twisting things. You create a different “truth” in your mind and argue with your partner about it.
For people who love each other, fighting can actually be fun. Their bond gets stronger after each fight and making up.
Love isn’t afraid of fights, but it is afraid of what happens after a fight. A lot of couples don’t want to admit they are wrong or apologize. They care more about their pride than their love, and they lose their love because of it.
If a woman wants to know how much a man loves her, she should look at how he acts during an argument. Does he apologize?
Jack London said, “Love dwells on the mountain heights, above the valley of reason. Love is the sublimation of life, the apex of being, and it seldom appears.”
It’s hard to meet someone, get to know them, and fall in love. If you’re in love, you should cherish that connection and try to make it worth it, leaving no regrets.
But some people love their partner deeply, but after a few arguments, they don’t want to be the first to apologize. They’d rather lose the relationship than admit they were wrong.
That kind of stubbornness isn’t worth it.
We know that men love to save face, but in love, in front of the woman they love, they shouldn’t worry about their pride unless it’s something that hurts their self-respect. Why lose the person they love most?
Maybe later on, they’ll regret it, feel sad, and wish they could go back in time and tell themselves not to be so proud.
Love sometimes needs to be rational, but it also needs to be emotional. If you love her, don’t put on an act and refuse to apologize. Sometimes, apologizing doesn’t hurt your pride; it actually makes the woman love you more.
Marlinsky once said, “First love without experience is charming, but love that stands the test of time is priceless.”
How do you know if your love can stand the test of time? It’s when you face problems and obstacles.
A man who truly loves you cares about you. When something happens, he thinks about your feelings first.
For example, if you’re arguing, even if it’s a big fight, he won’t want to see you upset for long. He won’t want you to be so angry that you don’t eat, sleep, or take care of yourself.
Even if he’s angry after a fight, he’ll still be thinking about you. He’ll be worried about you. That’s the magic of love. No matter what, if he loves you, he’ll always think about you.
Since he thinks about you, he won’t care about his own feelings. He just wants you to be happy. Even if it’s your fault, he’ll think it’s okay. He’ll apologize first so you can feel better.
I remember a story from a user online about her life with her husband. One night, she and her husband got into a big fight over a small thing. Her husband put on his shoes and was about to leave.
Seeing his attitude, she got angry and said, “If you leave, don’t come back.”
Her husband said, “If I come back, I’m your grandson.”
After he left, she was still angry. But half an hour later, he came back with her favorite barbecue. The first thing he said when he walked in was, “Grandma, I’m home.”
Would you say he lost face? Of course not.
We see the love he has for his wife. Even when they’re fighting, he still buys her food. Even when he puts himself down, he wants his wife to calm down.
A woman is lucky to find a man like that.
Wang Xiaobo said, “I give you my whole soul, including its quirks, tantrums, ups and downs, and eighteen hundred bad habits. It’s really annoying, but it has one good thing: it loves you.”
When you love someone, you’ll have a lot of emotions. You might even get a little grumpy.
But even when you fight, a man who loves you won’t want to see you sad or upset. He’ll apologize. Even if it’s your fault, he’ll try to make things right.
So, women should know that a man’s love isn’t measured by whether he fights with you, but whether he apologizes after a fight.
