How to Tell If a Guy Truly Loves You: 3 Things to Look Out For
Hugo once said, “The love that’s just starting out sees only life, but the love that lasts sees eternity.”
Beautiful love always needs to be tested, and perhaps in real life, many women have a habit of constantly asking their men if they truly love them.
At first, the guy might patiently answer, but as time goes on, he’ll start to get annoyed with this behavior.
However, the underlying reason women ask this question is because they want to know if the guy truly loves them.
A guy’s words can be deceiving.
When a guy says he loves you, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true love, because love is about actions, not just sweet talk. While sweet nothings might sound nice, they can’t represent permanence. To judge if a guy truly loves you, look out for these three things, and you’ll have your answer.
Traveling with Him
You can tell if a guy loves you by traveling with him once.
I solidified my relationship with my husband through a trip.
Back then, we met through friends, and in their words, he was a romantic and gentle guy. However, our first meeting was a bit awkward since we didn’t know each other well.
So, when we were together, we didn’t have much to talk about. Later, through our conversations, I discovered we shared a passion for travel, and every time we talked about it, we could chat nonstop.
Later, he took the initiative to ask me to travel with him. To be honest, I was a bit hesitant at first, since we didn’t know each other well, and it was my first time traveling with a guy.
Before the trip, he had already planned out our itinerary and did a lot of prep work.
During our trip, his gentleness and romance really touched me. We went to many places together, and he took care of me throughout the journey.
After the trip, our feelings for each other grew stronger, and it was then that we officially established our romantic relationship.
Why is traveling a test of a guy’s love? Because a guy’s sweet talk might deceive, but his actions won’t. During the trip, we can better understand each other and get closer to each other’s hearts.
If a guy can give you a sense of security during this time, it proves he’s sincere.
Riding in His Car
You might wonder how riding in a guy’s car can reveal his love for you.
When you’re just starting out in a relationship, you can tell a guy’s character by his car. A guy who loves cleanliness will keep his car tidy, while a guy who’s not particular will have a messy car.
A guy’s driving skills can also reveal his character. A calm guy will naturally be a good driver.
Not long ago, we rode in a friend’s car, and when we got in, we noticed a sign on the passenger seat that said, “Wife’s exclusive seat.”
After seeing this, we joked, “You’re really afraid of your wife now, but you weren’t like this back in school.”
After we said this, he smiled and told us, “I’ve gotten used to my wife sitting next to me.” Honestly, when I heard this, I felt a bit envious. We’ve known each other since we were kids, and now he’s like this with a girl, which means he must be truly in love.
A guy who truly loves you will give you a sense of security, while a guy who doesn’t love you will make excuses to avoid you. So, you can tell if a guy loves you by observing the little things in life.
Cooking with Him
Molière once said, “To put love outside of life is to put happiness outside of life.”
Love is filled with ups and downs, and life is filled with the mundane.
When you’re just starting out in a relationship, your feelings for each other might be very beautiful, but as time goes on, you’ll discover each other’s flaws. True love is about mutual respect. When you cook with a guy, you’ll know if he truly loves you.
A guy who loves you will consider your feelings, not just criticize you. When a guy is willing to cook for you, it represents his love for you. True love isn’t about words; it’s about actions.
A guy who loves you won’t let you suffer and will always put you first. When a guy always prioritizes you, it proves he truly loves you.
La Rochefoucauld once said, “There’s only one true love, but there are countless imitations.”
Good love is hard to come by for each of us, and when we face love, the only thing we can do is be honest with each other. Sometimes, we might doubt each other’s love.
However, true love doesn’t need to be doubted, because a guy who truly loves you will give you a sense of security. If you’re in a relationship and you’re always anxious, then that love isn’t worth your effort.
By observing these three things, you’ll know if a guy truly loves you. If you’ve found a good guy who truly loves you, please cherish him.
