How to Make Your Girlfriend Love You More

1. Train Your Girlfriend (Role Perception)

Training is not always necessary. If you want a natural beauty, just stand by and admire. But if you want your girlfriend to be tailored to your thoughts or wishes, you need to put in some effort to train her.

First, about training, it’s not about forcefully controlling someone’s behavior. The essence of training is to change your own behavior, and the other person’s behavior will naturally change.

In relationships, the interaction between two people is essentially a form of role perception. Based on your own character, the other person will consciously or unconsciously enter your role. For example, the roles of a father and daughter, or an elder brother and younger sister. By assuming these roles, you hold a higher position, and the other person acts in an immature and irrational manner, allowing them to be spoiled and carefree in your presence, without taking responsibility for their words. You become the tolerant one.

So, by changing your behavior, the ideal boyfriend becomes a lover, father, comrade, and soulmate. The lover role is for the romantic relationship between you; the father role is for understanding and caring; the comrade role is for companionship and encouragement. The soulmate role is for spiritual resonance.

If these roles are established, your girlfriend becomes more dependent on you and starts to act like a child. Of course, each role should take turns, otherwise, your girlfriend will struggle without you, just like being unable to open a bottle cap.

2. Praise Your Girlfriend More (Positive Behavioral Guidance)

To seriously sculpt your high-quality girlfriend, brainwashing is indispensable.

Brainwashing is actually very simple. You just need to praise her for being so good to you, whether or not she is good to you. The important thing is that she likes you and cares about what you say. This way, regardless of her behavior, she will eventually treat you well. Isn’t that magical?

To put it into practice, whenever she does something good for you, praise her for being kind. From the standpoint of behavioral psychology, praising encourages good behavior, while blaming punishes it. By praising her often, she will be under your influence and do everything to satisfy you, naturally entering the role of treating you well. Similarly, blaming her will put her in the role of not treating you well, and she will naturally treat you worse.

3. Demonstrate Long-term Compatibility (Charm)

First, what is long-term value? Your economic ability, vision, connections, and support for her career are important, but economic status and connections are relatively less important. What matters most is vision, making her believe that you are reliable.

You should let go of small things when necessary. You just need to steer the big picture. Arguments are fine too; every couple argues, and adaptation is essential, particularly in terms of the environment, beliefs, and personal habits. The important thing is the attitude in resolving issues.