How Much He Loves You, No Need to Test, You’ll Know in Three Days
Many women in love lack a sense of security, so they often test their partner in relationships. But I want to say that if he truly loves you, you won’t need to test him; you’ll know in three days.
A few days ago, I received a letter from a friend, and in it, she wrote:
We’ve been in a relationship for three years, and we met through friends. At first, we didn’t have any pressure, but later, when we started talking about marriage, we encountered huge conflicts.
After meeting our parents, our side requested a dowry of 150,000, but my boyfriend’s family thought it was unreasonable. After negotiating with our parents, we lowered the dowry to 80,000, but my boyfriend still felt it was too much.
I really love my boyfriend, so I spoke highly of him in front of my parents, but they thought that if he truly loved me, he should be willing to spend the money to marry me.
Later, I realized that it wasn’t wrong. If he didn’t spend a dime, he wouldn’t appreciate me. My boyfriend thought that as his girlfriend, I should understand him, and he said that if I loved him, I would tolerate him.
At the time, I felt very frustrated, and my parents strongly opposed his way of thinking. So, our two families reached an impasse.
A month later, under my parents’ pressure, I chose to break up with him. After the breakup, we didn’t block each other, but we silently agreed not to contact each other. That’s how we ended our three-year relationship.
However, after the breakup, I couldn’t let him go. We would secretly like each other’s posts, perhaps because we truly loved each other.
Reality is indeed cruel, and we loved each other, but we broke up because of the dowry issue. Perhaps reality is too harsh.
It’s been a long time since we broke up, and I’ve always wanted to get back together with him. But after hearing that he had a girlfriend, I finally let go of that relationship.
Listening to their story, perhaps everyone will have a sense of empathy. In life, there are many people who break up due to various reasons.
There are many people with regrets, and those we once loved will only exist in our memories. Those things that make us regret are actually because we once truly loved, so it’s even more painful when we break up.
But someone said, “Those who don’t cherish you will leave; they’re just passersby.”
Now, thinking back, this sentence isn’t wrong.
If someone truly loves you, you’ll understand after a period of separation; there’s no need to test.
The Man Who Loves You Knows How to Admit His Mistakes
Lin Huiyin once said, “When you love someone, you must admit defeat.”
I remember when I first started dating my boyfriend, we both had strong tempers. We would often quarrel due to various life issues, and we even broke up once because of it.
Later, as we spent more time together, I discovered that his temper became gentler. Whenever I got angry, he would actively apologize to me. Now, we’ve been married for five years, and our relationship is still very stable.
I can feel that this man truly loves me, so I’m trying to change myself. I’m sharing my story with everyone, hoping that everyone will understand that a man who loves you will admit his mistakes, whereas a man who doesn’t love you will shift all the responsibility to you.
The Man Who Loves You Will Be Anxious
A long time without seeing each other will naturally make the relationship between two people become rigid. Women’s thoughts are sensitive, and when they can’t sense a man’s love, they will feel extremely lost.
A man who loves you won’t let you overthink, and if he doesn’t see you for a while, he’ll become extremely anxious. This is actually a manifestation of a man’s love for you. If you encounter such a man, don’t miss him, because some people will never come back once they’re gone.
Lin Huiyin once said, “Meeting you among millions is fate.”
I think everyone can understand this sentence well. In real life, we will encounter various people, and each encounter is actually predetermined.
Women in love are often low in IQ because women are more emotional, and they will willingly give up themselves for a man.
But in reality, this approach is foolish because love is a two-way pursuit. If a man doesn’t love you, no matter how much you give, it’s meaningless to him. So, learn to give your emotions to someone who deserves you, and your life will become more wonderful.
