Extramarital Affairs: Most People Can’t Find True Love, Unfortunately Many Don’t Understand

Some say: “Loving you is a warm memory, a romantic feeling, a sweet attitude, a bitter wait, and an inexplicable inner passion!”

Love is wonderful, but sometimes it can be troublesome. Being in a hidden relationship requires patience.

Some people wait a long time after encountering extramarital affairs, only to realize they have been deceived in the end.

In reality, most extramarital affairs don’t lead to true love, yet some people remain obstinate.

When someone is in an extramarital affair, or meets someone already married who claims to love them, they tend to believe it.

However, after being deceived, they realize it was all like a dream, and they were foolish.

Extramarital emotions—most people can’t find true love in them, but many fail to grasp this truth.

Married individuals rarely truly love you. People’s hearts are hard to fathom. Sometimes, what they say may not match their actions.

Three years ago, a close friend of mine experienced this with her husband. When he fell for someone during a business trip, she found messages on his phone saying: “I love you, but I have no money.”

Ironically, her husband was wealthy, with several companies listed in China.

Many people engaging in extramarital affairs don’t genuinely treat the other person well; they see them as a mere pastime.

When faced with issues of interest, they may reject the other person or make excuses. Beware of such individuals.

Sometimes, despite your unwavering trust, a single event can reveal someone’s true nature.

Renowned host and playwright once said: “Human nature is fragile. Don’t test it recklessly.”

Be cautious of individuals who claim to love you despite being married; they often fail such tests.

While it’s a human weakness to fall in love even when married, when faced with adversity, they won’t stand by you—another weakness of human nature.

Even if a married person loves you, they will have reservations. Even if a married person falls for you or someone else after starting a family, they will prioritize their family.

People can be impulsive in love, yet they consider their family when making decisions.

If a married person claims to love you, it doesn’t necessarily mean they truly do; it’s just a fleeting feeling.

In a TV drama, when the male protagonist wanted to be with someone else, despite his feelings, he had reservations.

The woman noticed his reservations and feared losing, so she devised a plan. She pretended to give up, hoping he would return to his family. She divorced her husband first, which made the protagonist feel guilty, leading him to seek a divorce from his wife.

Despite their feelings, they still consider their family, reluctant to abandon it. How can one truly love if they can’t prioritize their family?

Character and love sometimes align. People with good character tend to have lasting relationships, even leading to marriage.

People with poor character tend to be irresponsible and may betray their partners in marriage. How can such individuals find true love?

Someone who can betray their spouse can easily betray others. Don’t engage in extramarital affairs or fall for married individuals.

Someone who can betray their marriage can betray others, making them untrustworthy. Avoid such individuals if you seek a genuine relationship, as they may betray you too.

Some individuals find true love in marriage, but when they betray it, they realize the extramarital relationship lacks true love because the other person can’t trust a cheater.

Those who lead a virtuous life focused on their family tend to find happiness. Those who stray in marriage and easily change partners often don’t end well.

Extramarital affairs are brief and painful. They offer fleeting happiness but can lead to lifelong pain.

Initially, some people in extramarital affairs find happiness due to the excitement and novelty. However, as time passes, the thrill fades, replaced by stress.

Some fear not reciprocating feelings in extramarital affairs or being seen as a joke by the other person.

In conclusion, extramarital affairs have no good endings. Most extramarital relationships don’t lead to true love and may involve deception.

If deceived in an extramarital affair, you may have to bear the consequences alone, as legal actions can tarnish your reputation.

Everyone should cherish their happiness, which lies in their spouse. Those who easily change partners in marriage often end up empty-handed.

As said in a movie, “Once there was a sincere love in front of me, but I didn’t cherish it. Now, I regret deeply.”

Cherish your loved ones and don’t let others hurt those closest to you.