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How to “Flirt” with a Middle-Aged Woman: A Three-Step Guide

John and Lily have known each other for three years. They were college classmates. After graduation, Lily quickly got married. But she wasn’t happy in her marriage. So after five years, she got divorced. Lily didn’t start another relationship after the divorce. John knew she was struggling, so he stayed by her side. Lily was very touched by his support. In college, John had asked Lily out, but she had turned him down because she was being stubborn. Now, she really appreciated John’s constant care.

August 12, 2024 4 min read

The Man Who Refuses to Share These Three Things with You is Pretending to Love You

Some time ago, I posted an article, and a friend commented: “As a woman, you must withstand lies, endure perfunctoriness, tolerate deception, forget promises, and finally use a smile to cover up the tears that fall. I’d rather believe in ghosts than believe in a man’s broken promises!” After seeing this comment, I felt relieved. Relieved that there are some women who are clear-headed in relationships. But I also felt a bit sad. Sad that there is still so little genuine emotion in this world!

August 11, 2024 5 min read

The Art of Dealing with Men: Delayed Satisfaction

Bing, 24, has been married for over three years. Despite her young age, she has a deep understanding of how to maintain a happy marriage. After three years of marriage, Bing has continued to pursue her career, earning her husband’s respect. When friends asked her the secret to her happy marriage, Bing smiled and said, “There’s no secret. As a woman, you should never be too submissive to men. You should have your own opinions and not be swayed by what men say. Only then will men truly love you.”

August 10, 2024 4 min read

Women Who Can Enter a Man’s “Dark Side” Will Make Men Love “Madly”

In life, we are often taught to love others, but rarely taught to love one person forever. Sometimes love fades away, relationships drift apart. Some women can reach deep into a man’s heart and understand his dark side, while others cannot. Most people show their best side to others and keep their dark side hidden. Smart women know a man’s dark side and how to deal with it. In love and marriage, there are skills to master. Women, being the vulnerable group, can easily get hurt emotionally. While not hurting others, they must protect themselves and learn how to capture a man’s heart.

June 16, 2024 3 min read

Older Single Women Who Are Unwilling to Get Married, There Is Only One Reason

I once saw a saying online: “Not dating doesn’t mean no one is interested, it just means the right one hasn’t come yet, so I should wait cleanly and openly for him to appear.” I resonated with this saying because those who treat relationships casually are the ones most serious about them. Often, not dating doesn’t mean we have no options, but rather we are waiting for that unique person.

June 12, 2024 4 min read

Why Indifference Works Best When Loving a Man

The Importance of Maintaining Distance in Relationships The best kind of love is not fiery like flames but steady like water, because water can flow long. When many women fall in love with a man, they feel they should bravely pursue their love. They say women have zero IQ in love. When a woman treats a man with passion, indeed her IQ is zero. But sometimes your passion doesn’t bring back the love from others. Maybe women blame men, thinking men are heartless.

June 11, 2024 5 min read

What Makes a Woman “Irresistible” to Men: A Common Trait

It all boils down to your own worth and how much you’re needed. Sarah is 30 years old and has been married to her husband for 7 years. To their friends, they’re a perfect couple. Lots of friends ask Sarah what their secret is. She always smiles and says, “Just be considerate.” After getting married, Sarah became a stay-at-home wife. She’s happy to put in the effort for her family. When her husband comes home, she never lets him do chores.

June 7, 2024 4 min read

Why is it Hard for Midway Couples to Connect? Listen to Three Experienced People Have to Say

“We can never go back.” In real life, we all face marriage with expectations, but often love leads to sorrow, and not all relationships last forever. After experiencing a failed marriage, we become more cautious about love, afraid to easily give our hearts. Why is it difficult for midway couples to connect emotionally? Let’s hear from three experienced individuals. Miss Smith, 32 years old It’s been three months since my divorce. After the divorce, I met him. Even though I thought we would get along well, we had many conflicts, especially regarding our child. I chose not to have more children out of fear for my child’s safety, causing a major disagreement between us. He saw it as selfish, but my intention was solely for the child. This led to conflicts and eventually a cold war. Later, I realized that remarried couples also have their own hesitations, with children being a significant obstacle.

February 21, 2024 3 min read

When a Woman’s Heart Dies, She Doesn’t Quarrel, But Does These Three Things Silently

You may have heard this saying before, and it’s true: making a scene is dependence, while being polite is being distant. When a woman deeply loves you, she will be willing to rely on you. But when a woman is utterly disappointed, she will slowly drift away from you. What does marriage feel like? A son once asked his mother this question. Instead of answering directly, she deleted all the songs from her son’s iPhone, leaving only one on infinite loop until the battery died.

February 20, 2024 4 min read

To be honest, most couples settle for each other

A fulfilling marriage only exists when both the husband and wife turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to each other. As Franklin said, “Before marriage, keep your eyes wide open; after marriage, half shut.” Life is never perfect. We all seek partial contentment. Love and marriage have their beautiful sides, but they are not flawless. Just like precious gems, human emotions also have their flaws. Perhaps you always see other marriages as perfect, with harmonious couples, while only feeling dissatisfied with your own family.

February 19, 2024 4 min read