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Older Single Women Who Are Unwilling to Get Married, There Is Only One Reason

I once saw a saying online: “Not dating doesn’t mean no one is interested, it just means the right one hasn’t come yet, so I should wait cleanly and openly for him to appear.” I resonated with this saying because those who treat relationships casually are the ones most serious about them. Often, not dating doesn’t mean we have no options, but rather we are waiting for that unique person.

June 12, 2024 4 min read

Why Indifference Works Best When Loving a Man

The Importance of Maintaining Distance in Relationships The best kind of love is not fiery like flames but steady like water, because water can flow long. When many women fall in love with a man, they feel they should bravely pursue their love. They say women have zero IQ in love. When a woman treats a man with passion, indeed her IQ is zero. But sometimes your passion doesn’t bring back the love from others. Maybe women blame men, thinking men are heartless.

June 11, 2024 5 min read

What Makes a Woman “Irresistible” to Men: A Common Trait

It all boils down to your own worth and how much you’re needed. Sarah is 30 years old and has been married to her husband for 7 years. To their friends, they’re a perfect couple. Lots of friends ask Sarah what their secret is. She always smiles and says, “Just be considerate.” After getting married, Sarah became a stay-at-home wife. She’s happy to put in the effort for her family. When her husband comes home, she never lets him do chores.

June 7, 2024 4 min read

Why is it Hard for Midway Couples to Connect? Listen to Three Experienced People Have to Say

“We can never go back.” In real life, we all face marriage with expectations, but often love leads to sorrow, and not all relationships last forever. After experiencing a failed marriage, we become more cautious about love, afraid to easily give our hearts. Why is it difficult for midway couples to connect emotionally? Let’s hear from three experienced individuals. Miss Smith, 32 years old It’s been three months since my divorce. After the divorce, I met him. Even though I thought we would get along well, we had many conflicts, especially regarding our child. I chose not to have more children out of fear for my child’s safety, causing a major disagreement between us. He saw it as selfish, but my intention was solely for the child. This led to conflicts and eventually a cold war. Later, I realized that remarried couples also have their own hesitations, with children being a significant obstacle.

February 21, 2024 3 min read

When a Woman’s Heart Dies, She Doesn’t Quarrel, But Does These Three Things Silently

You may have heard this saying before, and it’s true: making a scene is dependence, while being polite is being distant. When a woman deeply loves you, she will be willing to rely on you. But when a woman is utterly disappointed, she will slowly drift away from you. What does marriage feel like? A son once asked his mother this question. Instead of answering directly, she deleted all the songs from her son’s iPhone, leaving only one on infinite loop until the battery died.

February 20, 2024 4 min read

To be honest, most couples settle for each other

A fulfilling marriage only exists when both the husband and wife turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to each other. As Franklin said, “Before marriage, keep your eyes wide open; after marriage, half shut.” Life is never perfect. We all seek partial contentment. Love and marriage have their beautiful sides, but they are not flawless. Just like precious gems, human emotions also have their flaws. Perhaps you always see other marriages as perfect, with harmonious couples, while only feeling dissatisfied with your own family.

February 19, 2024 4 min read

In the Later Half of a Woman’s Life, It’s Not About Marriage, But About These 3 “Trump Cards”

Older generations often say that no matter how strong a woman is, she will eventually get married, and it’s better to marry a good husband than to do well in her career. Being able to hold hands with the one you love for a lifetime and live worry-free in marriage is indeed the dream of many women. But life is not a fairy tale, and happiness is not always easily obtained.

February 15, 2024 5 min read

The Brother’s Shameless Demand for a Red Packet Ruined His Sister’s Happiness

From what I’ve heard: “Money can make ghosts push the millstone.” I didn’t quite understand the meaning of this phrase back then, but after attending a friend’s wedding, I finally got it. Some people really do take money very seriously. Recently, I attended a friend’s wedding, and something embarrassing happened: The bride and groom were about to get married, and everyone was over the moon, thinking the newlyweds would be together forever. But then, the bride’s brother asked for a 10,000 yuan red packet.

February 14, 2024 5 min read

Don’t Treat Emotions as the Only Path to Happiness After Betrayal

Once someone experiences betrayal in a relationship, they start to see things differently. Like how they face the person who hurt them, the meaning of marriage, and what emotions really are. From a certain perspective, the more you learn about these aspects, the more you reshape your inner self. This experience becomes more meaningful. When this meaning surpasses a certain level, the ultimate outcome of the marriage or relationship becomes less important. You’ve already gained what you needed, and that’s sufficient.

February 11, 2024 4 min read

The High Price of a High Salary: Why I Chose Love Over Money

35-Year-Old Single Woman Confused: I Make $20,000 a Month, Why Am I Losing to a Girl Making $4,000? It’s normal to get married at the right age. However, some people in society miss the best marriage age, perhaps because they are busy with work and career, or for other unavoidable reasons, and become “leftover” singles. There are many reasons why older singles stay single. Besides not wanting to get married too early, they may also have some problems.

February 10, 2024 7 min read