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The Deepest Worries of Men in their 40s in Marriage Life—Three Men Revealed Their “Secrets”
Mr. Wang, Fear of Rejection Being married to my wife for 20 years, we’ve been through thick and thin together. Our current relationship is not as intimate as before. She used to be affectionate, but now she constantly rejects me. In the early days of our relationship, we were deeply in love. But now, she won’t even let me touch her because she says I snore. She even suggested sleeping in separate beds. Initially, I resisted but eventually started sleeping alone in the study to avoid disturbing her. However, this arrangement is not what I want, leading to many conflicts between us.
The Most Important Thing Between Lovers is this One Word
Lovers always have their ups and downs. In real life, emotions play a crucial role in relationships. When it comes to love, everyone has a different answer. Socrates once said, “In any case, you should get married. If you marry a good wife, you will be happy. If you marry a bad wife, you will become a philosopher.” In reality, men want to meet a good woman, and women also hope to meet a good man.
“What Is It Like for Men to Marry a Beautiful Wife?” Three Married Men Speak Their Minds
A beautiful woman in a man’s eyes is captivating in every move. For men, marrying a beautiful woman is a lifelong dream. Men are visual creatures, especially when it comes to seeing a beauty, they can’t take their eyes off. Even when they have a partner by their side, they don’t hesitate to admire others. This behavior may upset their partners, but they do not care. Ancient poets were able to vividly describe the beauty of women. The allure of a beautiful woman on men is immense. Men who marry attractive wives become objects of envy for other men.
56-Year-Old Aunt’s Solo Road Trip Goes Viral: “I Can’t Divorce, But Let Me Escape for a While”
Yang Jiang once said, “The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others.” Online, a 56-year-old aunt who went on a solo road trip has become popular. In a video, she mentioned living with her husband under the arrangement of splitting expenses due to their different ideologies. For the sake of their children, she chose not to divorce. However, she felt unhappy due to the gap between her and her husband’s thoughts. Therefore, she decided to take a break and explore on her own.
Why Are More and More People Unwilling to Get Married?
I was chatting with a few friends, and we started talking about marriage, kids, and retirement. Two of my friends are already married with kids. They both agreed on marriage, saying, “I’m married, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to get married. I’ve had kids, so I wouldn’t easily advise others to have kids.” Hearing this, the rest of us felt awkward. Those who were about to get married started doubting themselves, wondering if they should get married. Those who didn’t have a boyfriend thought it was actually pretty good being single.
Your Marriage Happiness Is Actually Determined Before Marriage
We often say that you should find someone with good marriage values to marry, but what does it really mean to have good values? Some people view marriage as a way to benefit themselves without giving back. They are like parasites in a marriage, only taking and not giving. Living with such people is exhausting, both mentally and physically. Marriage is something everyone should understand well. It’s based on emotions, which stem from liking each other. Many people get married without truly knowing each other’s values, especially about marriage and family.
Your Relationship with Your Mother Indicates Whether Your Marriage Will Be Happy
In family life, mothers and fathers play different roles. Mothers are gentle, while fathers are usually strict. It’s these differences that help shape our personalities. The sensitivity and gentleness of a mother are qualities worth learning from. The courage and resilience of a father are essential on the path to maturity. Therefore, the happiness of a family heavily relies on the combined efforts of both parents. Often, your relationship with your mother also indicates the potential happiness of your marriage.
Which is More Comfortable, First Marriage or Second Marriage?
Three Second Marriage Couples Share Their “Secrets” I recently came across a video on a platform. It was about an old monk writing a pair of couplets. The couplet reads: “Life often doesn’t go as planned, just seek half contentment in everything.” This sentence highlights that life can be tough, so don’t strive for perfection in everything or expect to have it all. Being half content is already good enough.
This Kind of State is the Best For Women When They are Single
The story begins with a friend sending me a message, saying: “There’s a friend of mine who perfectly fits the state I described.” Her friend, born in 1986, has always been pursued and has also pursued men. She has had several relationships, with the youngest being born in 1991. Many of them even introduced her to their parents. Some were wealthy, had good temperaments, and were devoted to her. She knows exactly what she wants in life. Marriage is just a phase in her life. With a broad perspective, she can handle every phase with ease and doesn’t get worked up over the gains and losses of each phase. She wants the whole world and isn’t concerned about small gains and losses.
Is He Really Into You or Just Faking It? It’s Not That Hard to Tell
Liu Yu once said something about love: Compared to the women I know, men are always more able to fall in love with a “laid-back” attitude. Women, on the other hand, are always in love with an attitude that makes you think of “blood and thunder,” like they’re ready to die for love, jump into a fire, and go down with the ship. They’re in love with a grand, glorious death.
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