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After Ending a Marriage, Choosing to Be Single or Pursue a New Relationship

When it comes to marriage, divorce is always a possibility. So, how do those who have gone through divorce view marriage and relationships? The best answer I’ve heard is this: I still wish happiness for those in happy marriages, but I am content with a single life. For those who have been divorced, they probably understand that marriage is just one way of life. Whether to divorce depends not only on fate but also on what kind of life one wants.

February 8, 2024 4 min read

Overcoming the Resentment Trap: A Crucial Step in Restoring a Relationship

Falling into this Pitfall while Trying to Salvage the Relationship Will Definitely Make the Other Party Ignore You Completely During the process of salvaging a relationship, there is a pitfall that, once fallen into, will absolutely drive the other party away from you. It’s just a matter of time. This pitfall is often triggered by the other party’s slight “indifference” towards you, and ultimately leads to the disintegration of the relationship.

December 27, 2023 6 min read

Ten Tips for Long-Distance Relationships You Must Read

With the increasing diversity of communication methods, long-distance relationships are becoming more common. However, despite the advancement of communication, couples separated by distance still face obstacles. Long-distance relationships are high-risk and require more effort from both parties. This article provides ten practical suggestions for long-distance relationships, helping everyone understand the biggest challenges and risks and how to avoid and deal with them. Are You Suitable for a Long-Distance Relationship? Before entering a long-distance relationship, it’s best to consider if it’s suitable for you. Long-distance relationships are selective.

December 23, 2023 3 min read

From Estrangement to Father, Perhaps Another Kind of Fulfillment

I once read: “A father’s love is like a mountain, towering and intimidating, making people hesitant to climb; a father’s love is like the sky, broad and profound, making me look up and feel pity without daring to howl; a father’s love is like a river, slender and flowing, making me hesitant to wade.” I often hear people say “strict mother and stern father.” It’s because of the seriousness of the father that many people are close to their mothers but distant from their fathers.

December 22, 2023 5 min read

In Bed, This Is How Men Show Love

In relationships, women often wonder: Does he really love me? How much does he love me? Nowadays, everything is about efficiency, even dating. Being in a relationship for over three months without physical intimacy is considered slow. Not only women, but men themselves may not always be clear about whether their passion contains love or is just hormonal impulses. The shorter the time of knowing each other, the harder it is to distinguish.

December 19, 2023 4 min read

Facing Infidelity, Transform and Heal Yourself Bit by Bit

After being betrayed, it’s common to make significant decisions that require time. Before making a decision, people often get stuck in a painful situation, unsure of what to do next. If you’re lost, start with small things, one step at a time, and let yourself heal. You Need an Emotional Outlet When you’re betrayed, it’s like getting a heart disease. You need to clear out the emotional blockage and find an outlet for your emotions. Many people choose to confide in the person who betrayed them, which is a huge mistake. You can’t expect someone who hurt you to heal and comfort you.

December 18, 2023 2 min read

Want to See You, But Afraid to Tell You

Have you ever loved someone so much that you wanted to see them, but couldn’t bring yourself to tell them? You pick up the phone, open their chat box, and want to ask, “Are you okay?” But then you hastily delete it. You want to call them, but when you dial, you quickly hang up. After much hesitation, you end up just holding your head and crying. We promised not to see each other after breaking up, but now I miss you and can’t help but think of you. I can’t bring myself to erase you from my memory. Please forgive me for breaking my promise. We said we wouldn’t be sad after the breakup, but I can’t help it.

August 13, 2023 5 min read

Why Do Couples Whose Relationship Has Broken Find It Hard to Part Amicably

If a couple’s relationship has truly broken down, then parting amicably is actually the best outcome. Parting amicably is a way to respect the many years of feelings in the past and to protect the children as much as possible. However, parting amicably is often just an ideal state or a beautiful fantasy in people’s minds, based on the assumption of “good human nature.” In reality, most couples find it difficult to part amicably.

August 12, 2023 3 min read

How to Tell If a Woman Is Easy to Fall in Love With: Three “Tests” to See Clearly

Fifi is 23 years old. She just graduated from college. She got a great internship at a company because of her amazing grades. A lot of guys at the company liked her because she was so good at her job. One guy, John, really liked her. Fifi said no to him, but he kept trying. He was always checking on her and helping her out at work. After a while, Fifi started to feel differently about him. But she knew it wasn’t love, it was just that she was grateful. No matter how hard he tried, Fifi couldn’t convince herself to like him back.

August 11, 2023 4 min read

Woman, How Should an Improper Emotion End? Maybe You Can Only Leave It to Fate

There are many similar plots in marital relationships because the initial ways of coping are different, so there are different marital trajectories and life experiences. A woman accidentally had an improper relationship, now that her husband has found out, how should it end? This is a question a woman asked me at noon. It roughly means that a friend has been pursuing her; she “accidentally” made a mistake that her husband cannot tolerate. Last year, she could not resist her friend’s sweet talk and muddle-headedly got together with him; later, they would meet occasionally. Some time ago, her husband found out about this matter. Ever since then, the couple has been fighting all day; now, it has gotten to the point of divorce.

May 9, 2023 15 min read