Feelings emotions

Love Is a Test of Human Nature

Emotions are fluid, and a man’s affection for you is also fluid. It’s normal for his feelings to fluctuate over time. If you excessively view things in black and white in a relationship, always questioning whether he loves you, you’re undervaluing yourself. Expecting a partner to always provide a perfect experience is unrealistic. Just because certain behaviors don’t fully satisfy you doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you. A man’s actions shouldn’t be solely categorized as loving or not. If he does something that displeases you, set boundaries and communicate. If there’s no adjustment, consider whether his behavior aligns with your values rather than jumping to conclusions about his love for you.

October 2, 2025 2 min read

When a Man is Ready to Leave You, He Will Show “No Emotion” in These Three Situations

Do you still remember when we talked about men with others, and many people would say this sentence: “When a man loves you, he loves you deeply, but when he wants to leave you, he becomes extremely heartless.” In the TV series “The First Half of My Life,” Chen Junsheng initially loved Luo Zijun very much, and the two started dating in college, eventually getting married. After getting married, Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng had a very happy family, with a child and two elderly people at home, Chen Junsheng working outside, and Luo Zijun taking care of the family.

August 12, 2025 5 min read

Is It Just You Being Dramatic? Maybe You’re Just Too Free.

A friend I hadn’t talked to in a while called me. It was below zero outside, and my hands went numb after taking off my gloves to answer the phone. My friend just kept talking, complaining about how her husband was always working, and how they fought all the time, and how her relationship with her mother-in-law was… I couldn’t stand the cold or her negativity anymore. I just said, “I get it, we’re all working hard. But what you’re talking about seems like you’re just showing off.”

August 2, 2025 6 min read

The “First Time” in a Woman’s Eyes, with a Sense of Inferiority that Has Troubled Me for a Long…

When I first talked about love with him, I thought it was easy to be with someone. Since we could be sincere and genuine, we could naturally be together with all our hearts. I used to think it was simple, willing to love him with all my heart. Like a moth to a flame, I got hurt later on. From loving him to being hopeless and leaving him, the emotional changes were too fast.

July 12, 2025 7 min read

The Best Way to Forget Someone: Recall Intensely Until Exhausted

They say too much of anything will lead to a backlash. When we repeatedly indulge in the same food, our brain will react by starting to reject it. Similarly, when we keep admiring the same scenery, our aesthetic sense will tire and become weary. So, can forgetting someone be achieved by truly trying to forget? In my opinion, absolutely! “Go Against the Grain” Some say nothing is more sorrowful than a dead heart, and forgetting is the best way to erase someone from memory. However, forgetting someone is always the most challenging step to take.

June 23, 2025 4 min read

Understanding Troublesome Women, Winning Men’s Hearts

“Love is a woman’s lifelong story, but just a fleeting episode in a man’s life.” There are many devoted women in the world, but also many unfaithful men. In relationships, women often find themselves in a vulnerable position because they are more emotional, while men tend to just scratch the surface of emotions. Some women throw themselves into love, giving everything, only to end up empty-handed. Recently, while chatting with friends, we discussed love. I asked:

June 1, 2025 4 min read

Loving the Wrong Person and Unwilling to Leave, Let It Be

Perhaps in our lives, we all love the wrong person to some extent, experiencing different pains in relationships. However, life goes on. Sometimes, loving the wrong person isn’t scary. What’s truly scary is not knowing how to turn back. Some people are passionate and honest in relationships. Even if they love the wrong person, they are unwilling to leave. I know that genuine feelings are hard to let go of.

April 15, 2025 4 min read

Signs of a Man Who Doesn’t Value You: Let Go, He Doesn’t Have You in His Heart

Women are emotional and willing to entrust everything to a man they trust, willing to give their all for them. But when in love, women can be blinded by their perceptions, unable to see a man’s true feelings, and tend to idealize his actions, making it easy for men to play with their hearts and blur the lines in the relationship. On the other hand, even though a man can give his all to someone he loves, he can still pretend when he doesn’t. So if a man who hasn’t given you these “things” is in your life, you should let go because he doesn’t truly care about you.

April 12, 2025 3 min read

The Betrayal of Emotions, Making Past Encounters a Mistake

The betrayal of emotions is a thorough harm to a relationship, so it’s not just a careless mistake. Experiencing betrayal in a relationship doesn’t mean it can just go back to how it was initially. Betrayal is actually a denial, not just a denial of the other person’s love, but a thorough one. For those who have experienced emotional betrayal, when they look back on the relationship, they’ll feel like even the initial encounter was a mistake.

April 11, 2025 4 min read

When They Want to Leave You, They Will Give Off These “Signals”

My girlfriend, Emily, and I were college sweethearts. We were each other’s first love, and our time together was truly happy and beautiful. We would study together, work part-time jobs together, and travel together. Those four years of college were a testament to our love. Back then, we were convinced that we would get married after graduation. However, due to work issues, we ended up in different cities after graduation. Although we were apart, we still kept in touch every day. Maybe time had diluted our feelings for each other, because our communication gradually decreased.

April 10, 2025 4 min read