Feelings emotions

Woman, How Should an Improper Emotion End? Maybe You Can Only Leave It to Fate

There are many similar plots in marital relationships because the initial ways of coping are different, so there are different marital trajectories and life experiences. A woman accidentally had an improper relationship, now that her husband has found out, how should it end? This is a question a woman asked me at noon. It roughly means that a friend has been pursuing her; she “accidentally” made a mistake that her husband cannot tolerate. Last year, she could not resist her friend’s sweet talk and muddle-headedly got together with him; later, they would meet occasionally. Some time ago, her husband found out about this matter. Ever since then, the couple has been fighting all day; now, it has gotten to the point of divorce.

May 9, 2023 15 min read

Love and Insecurity: Coping with the Fear of Rejection

Being Truly Afraid When You Like Someone What does it feel like to like someone? Some say it’s joyful, inexplicably making you feel good all the time, like encountering a great thing. Others say it’s bittersweet, making you feel insecure and anxious. True liking is probably like this, sometimes extremely happy, and sometimes very down. Before that, our mood was mostly under our control, rarely influenced by others. But afterwards, we easily find ourselves often changing our mood because of someone.

May 8, 2023 5 min read

How Long Does It Take for a Man to Forget His First Love? You Might Be Surprised by the Answer.

First love is a memory that is hard to forget, and it carries the beautiful memories of our youth. For both men and women, first love holds a special significance and position in our hearts. After all, it’s the first time we experience love without being tainted by worldly desires and material conditions, and it’s our most innocent experience. For women, first love is like a guiding light that shows them what they want in a partner and how to approach love. It’s a milestone in their emotional journey.

May 7, 2023 3 min read

Stop Hurting Loved Ones with Violent Communication

How Nonviolent Communication Can Improve Your Relationships What is violent communication? Take this example: “You come home and just play on your phone. It’s like you don’t care about me at all. What’s the point of being in this relationship?!” This is a classic example of “violent communication.” It’s filled with comments, criticisms, accusations, and complaints. When faced with such complaints and accusations, how do most people react? Do they immediately put down their phone and try to have a calm conversation with you? No, their instinct is to put up their defenses. This usually leads to either an argument or a cold war.

May 2, 2023 4 min read