Dating

What Age of Woman Do Men Over 40 Like? Psychologists’ Answers Are Surprisingly Uniform

Many people think that men are more promiscuous and that they always prefer younger women. Zhang Ailing once said, “No woman is loved by a man solely because of her talent.” Men and women approach emotions and relationships differently. A woman in her teens may like a sunny and energetic young man, but in her 20s, she may prefer someone more mature. Later in life, she may like someone more stable and reliable.

January 13, 2025 3 min read

If You Often Have 3 Three Feelings, Someone Might Be Secretly Crushing on You, Don’t Be Clueless

Love isn’t necessarily at its best during the passionate moments; it can also be in the hazy phase before both parties reveal their feelings. Many people are timid in love. They dare not express their affections but instead keep that love hidden in their hearts, yet they subtly reveal traces of it in their interactions. You can’t hide loving someone; even if you don’t say it, it will show in your eyes.

January 10, 2025 4 min read

The Right Way to Handle Someone Not Responding to Messages

Between people, there are always some who are more proactive and some who are more passive. Actually, when we happen to be the more proactive one, as long as our initiative is valued by the other person and our messages are responded to seriously, it doesn’t really matter who initiates the conversation. When our initiative is valued and reciprocated, even if we were the first to reach out, we don’t need to keep track of who initiated the conversation.

January 9, 2025 5 min read

Why Do Women Always Demand to Be “Treated Well” in Choosing a Partner?

Many people say that in a romantic relationship, a man should treat a woman well. But this idea of “treating her well” varies from person to person and depends on different perspectives and backgrounds. From a man’s perspective: after I make a move, I need positive feedback to continue treating you well. From a woman’s perspective: you have to treat me well first, and then I’ll decide whether to give you positive feedback.

January 7, 2025 4 min read

This is the Mindset Girls Should Have When Pursuing Their Crush

“Love is a game” This is what a friend of mine shared with our chat group about her successful experience. The group is for female students to share tips on dressing up, makeup, taking photos, flirting, and all kinds of issues before and during a relationship. Although we are of different ages, communication is seamless. Also, everyone has their own strengths and expertise—I don’t know much about clothes, makeup and such, haha.

January 3, 2025 5 min read

When a Woman Truly Loves Someone, She Doesn’t Make the First Move—She Waits to Be “Hit On”

There’s a line in the movie “Shrek” where Shrek says: “If you like someone, you gotta tell them.” Even though Shrek is an ugly monster and the person he likes is a princess, he’s still brave enough to be with her. This shows that sometimes, a guy is bolder than a girl, especially in love. In a TV show, actress Jenny had a crush on the male lead. But she was a girl, so she was too scared to approach him. She would even take a detour if she saw him coming.

January 2, 2025 5 min read

Why Is Blind Dating Harder to Form “Feelings” Than Free Love?

Let’s talk about what girls have been talking about all along, “feelings.” It’s actually sexual impulse. It’s the most primal instinct, the reproductive impulse that arises from the heart. Of course, it doesn’t necessarily have to be handsome, that’s too narrow. It could also be about having leadership, assertiveness, insight, experience, talent, status. And this can’t be forced; it can only be evoked internally. Trying to persuade yourself with logic is useless.

December 30, 2024 5 min read

Gender Inequality in Relationships between Men and Women

Shakespeare once said, “Women do not have the conditions to be arrogant in love.” In the past, this seemed like a conclusion based on a specific historical era. But now, looking at it in modern times, it still applies. In a romantic relationship, if you are constantly in a power struggle with a man subconsciously, you’ve already lost. True empowerment means not even noticing the existence of this power struggle.

December 27, 2024 4 min read

The Wife and the Mistress: What Men Care About Forever

Roman Roland said, “The only greatness of marriage lies in the unique love, the mutual loyalty of two hearts.” However, in some people’s marriages, such loyal love is just out of reach. Even if they can control themselves, they can’t control their partner. Betrayal is the bottom line of marriage. Yet, in marriage, there are always those who will recklessly cross this line. To outsiders, if a man cheats on his wife and has a mistress, it’s because he’s tired of his marriage life and doesn’t love his wife anymore, which is why he does such a thing.

December 22, 2024 5 min read

Three Ways to Make a Woman “Addicted” to You, and Men Must Learn Them, Especially the First One

Shakespeare said, “True love is reflected in my heart, and I cannot estimate the wealth I have.” This kind of wealth is what we all want to have. Unfortunately, not everyone can have it, or some people may lose it due to their foolishness. When we fall in love, we all want to possess this love. After we get it, we start to worry that the other person might stop loving us one day, or leave us suddenly, making the beautiful love turn into nothing.

December 14, 2024 4 min read