Dating

The Right Way to Handle Someone Not Responding to Messages

Between people, there are always some who are more proactive and some who are more passive. Actually, when we happen to be the more proactive one, as long as our initiative is valued by the other person and our messages are responded to seriously, it doesn’t really matter who initiates the conversation. When our initiative is valued and reciprocated, even if we were the first to reach out, we don’t need to keep track of who initiated the conversation.

January 9, 2025 5 min read

Why Do Women Always Demand to Be “Treated Well” in Choosing a Partner?

Many people say that in a romantic relationship, a man should treat a woman well. But this idea of “treating her well” varies from person to person and depends on different perspectives and backgrounds. From a man’s perspective: after I make a move, I need positive feedback to continue treating you well. From a woman’s perspective: you have to treat me well first, and then I’ll decide whether to give you positive feedback.

January 7, 2025 4 min read

This is the Mindset Girls Should Have When Pursuing Their Crush

“Love is a game” This is what a friend of mine shared with our chat group about her successful experience. The group is for female students to share tips on dressing up, makeup, taking photos, flirting, and all kinds of issues before and during a relationship. Although we are of different ages, communication is seamless. Also, everyone has their own strengths and expertise—I don’t know much about clothes, makeup and such, haha.

January 3, 2025 5 min read

When a Woman Truly Loves Someone, She Doesn’t Make the First Move—She Waits to Be “Hit On”

There’s a line in the movie “Shrek” where Shrek says: “If you like someone, you gotta tell them.” Even though Shrek is an ugly monster and the person he likes is a princess, he’s still brave enough to be with her. This shows that sometimes, a guy is bolder than a girl, especially in love. In a TV show, actress Jenny had a crush on the male lead. But she was a girl, so she was too scared to approach him. She would even take a detour if she saw him coming.

January 2, 2025 5 min read

Why Is Blind Dating Harder to Form “Feelings” Than Free Love?

Let’s talk about what girls have been talking about all along, “feelings.” It’s actually sexual impulse. It’s the most primal instinct, the reproductive impulse that arises from the heart. Of course, it doesn’t necessarily have to be handsome, that’s too narrow. It could also be about having leadership, assertiveness, insight, experience, talent, status. And this can’t be forced; it can only be evoked internally. Trying to persuade yourself with logic is useless.

December 30, 2024 5 min read

Gender Inequality in Relationships between Men and Women

Shakespeare once said, “Women do not have the conditions to be arrogant in love.” In the past, this seemed like a conclusion based on a specific historical era. But now, looking at it in modern times, it still applies. In a romantic relationship, if you are constantly in a power struggle with a man subconsciously, you’ve already lost. True empowerment means not even noticing the existence of this power struggle.

December 27, 2024 4 min read

The Wife and the Mistress: What Men Care About Forever

Roman Roland said, “The only greatness of marriage lies in the unique love, the mutual loyalty of two hearts.” However, in some people’s marriages, such loyal love is just out of reach. Even if they can control themselves, they can’t control their partner. Betrayal is the bottom line of marriage. Yet, in marriage, there are always those who will recklessly cross this line. To outsiders, if a man cheats on his wife and has a mistress, it’s because he’s tired of his marriage life and doesn’t love his wife anymore, which is why he does such a thing.

December 22, 2024 5 min read

Three Ways to Make a Woman “Addicted” to You, and Men Must Learn Them, Especially the First One

Shakespeare said, “True love is reflected in my heart, and I cannot estimate the wealth I have.” This kind of wealth is what we all want to have. Unfortunately, not everyone can have it, or some people may lose it due to their foolishness. When we fall in love, we all want to possess this love. After we get it, we start to worry that the other person might stop loving us one day, or leave us suddenly, making the beautiful love turn into nothing.

December 14, 2024 4 min read

These Types of Women Make Men Hard to “Resist”

In real life, what kind of women do men like? This is a question that many people care about. Everyone has different standards of beauty, but outstanding women are usually similar. An excellent woman shines wherever she goes and captivates men. The following types of women often make men unable to resist. Infinitely Charming Women As a woman, you need to have femininity. Remember, your image is worth a million dollars.

December 12, 2024 4 min read

How to Make a Man Mentally Dependent on You

How to Make a Man Mentally Dependent on You What is mental dependence? It means he will think of you for everything. You will share joy and sorrow together. Many women, in order to keep a man, try to please him in every way. They make themselves a “giver” to make him dependent on them. However, even if this giving approach succeeds, what it brings to the partner is only a “habitual dependence.” Among all dependent relationships, mental dependence is the real secret to keeping him: making him uncontrollably dependent on you mentally, attracted by you. How to do it? If you want to “mentally control” someone, you need to give him enough mental stimulation. It involves three steps:

December 10, 2024 5 min read