Couples issues

Your Relationship with Your Mother Indicates Whether Your Marriage Will Be Happy

In family life, mothers and fathers play different roles. Mothers are gentle, while fathers are usually strict. It’s these differences that help shape our personalities. The sensitivity and gentleness of a mother are qualities worth learning from. The courage and resilience of a father are essential on the path to maturity. Therefore, the happiness of a family heavily relies on the combined efforts of both parents. Often, your relationship with your mother also indicates the potential happiness of your marriage.

October 21, 2024 4 min read

The Dilemma of Betrayal in Relationships: Why Is It So Hard to Let Go?

On a practical and objective level, what causes the difficulty in letting go after emotional betrayal? 1. Reluctance to give up existing benefits: Betrayal, in a way, is a form of possessing a special interest relationship. This possession, though unethical, doesn’t pose much of a psychological barrier if one disregards morals. Without moral constraints, most people would not refuse betrayal because it benefits them psychologically, physically, and emotionally. Due to these existing benefits, they are unwilling to let go and especially not willing to do so voluntarily. The end of a betrayal relationship usually only occurs in two common situations: internal division or when the losses outweigh the gains.

October 20, 2024 3 min read

10 Dating Advice for Guys

Here’s some dating advice for guys that will benefit you for a lifetime. Don’t rush into a relationship. As a pursuer, you should avoid hastily defining a relationship, as it may make the woman feel your intentions are impure. Take some time to observe a person. Value material compatibility. If you want to marry, stay away from those in the lower echelons of the city. Politely reject them. Use love as a tool to protect yourself. Find a practical woman. If you meet someone wealthier, talk about love, if they are poorer, discuss compatibility. If the other party’s family assets are tenfold larger, you’ve found true love.

October 19, 2024 2 min read

Smart Ways for Women to Maintain a Happy Marriage

Unhappy people each have their own unhappiness, but happy people are always so alike. What are the commonalities among the couples who grow old together and spend their lives together? Have you observed any of these traits in the loving couples around you? Mutual Consideration The power of love is immensely great. It can turn ugly into beautiful, evil into good, emptiness into fulfillment, negativity into positivity, disappointment into hope, and backwardness into progress. Love is the most wonderful and desirable thing. When two people are together, they encourage each other in times of negativity, motivate each other in times of pessimism, and restrain each other in times of arrogance.

October 18, 2024 3 min read

Which is More Comfortable, First Marriage or Second Marriage?

Three Second Marriage Couples Share Their “Secrets” I recently came across a video on a platform. It was about an old monk writing a pair of couplets. The couplet reads: “Life often doesn’t go as planned, just seek half contentment in everything.” This sentence highlights that life can be tough, so don’t strive for perfection in everything or expect to have it all. Being half content is already good enough.

October 17, 2024 3 min read

This Kind of Man, No Matter How Successful, is Not Worth Your Love

At the beginning of the article, let me ask you a question: what is your definition of a successful man? Some might say a successful man has a car, a house, savings, good connections, strong resources, can spend freely, swipe cards without worry, spend money like water, drive luxury cars, and live in mansions. That’s the image of a successful man, right? But I believe that true success in a man is not just about material possessions. It’s not enough to judge a person solely based on material wealth. Their inner qualities, cultural refinement, social status, and personality charm are equally important. A truly successful man is not just about appearances.

October 16, 2024 4 min read

She Cheats to Suppress Her Husband—Who Believe in Poisonous Romance Soup Are Deluding Themselves

One afternoon, a friend told me a very wise saying: “Things given for free are the most expensive; the most beautiful are often transient. Life requires perseverance, and one should never slack off.” This saying can stand the test of time, and many people have realized its truth through painful experiences. Things that are easily obtained are often easily lost. This is especially true in relationships, whether romantic or platonic. If you do not make sufficient effort and rely solely on taking, it is impossible to sustain a long-lasting relationship.

October 15, 2024 14 min read

“What Makes a Mistress Better Than a Wife?” Married Men Tell the Truth

Three Miao said, “If love doesn’t fall into the practical aspects of life, such as wearing clothes, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it won’t last long.” Maybe someone will say that these things in life are just small matters. Love can overcome everything, so what’s the big deal about these insignificant things? As long as two people love each other, these things won’t matter. In reality, talking about love without considering life is unrealistic. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be so many people who were once in love but ended up breaking up, and there wouldn’t be those who betrayed their marriages.

October 12, 2024 4 min read

Is He Really Into You or Just Faking It? It’s Not That Hard to Tell

Liu Yu once said something about love: Compared to the women I know, men are always more able to fall in love with a “laid-back” attitude. Women, on the other hand, are always in love with an attitude that makes you think of “blood and thunder,” like they’re ready to die for love, jump into a fire, and go down with the ship. They’re in love with a grand, glorious death.

October 11, 2024 6 min read

The Man Who Refuses to Share These Three Things with You is Pretending to Love You

Some time ago, I posted an article, and a friend commented: “As a woman, you must withstand lies, endure perfunctoriness, tolerate deception, forget promises, and finally use a smile to cover up the tears that fall. I’d rather believe in ghosts than believe in a man’s broken promises!” After seeing this comment, I felt relieved. Relieved that there are some women who are clear-headed in relationships. But I also felt a bit sad. Sad that there is still so little genuine emotion in this world!

August 11, 2024 5 min read