Couples issues

The Deepest Worries of Men in their 40s in Marriage Life—Three Men Revealed Their “Secrets”

Mr. Wang, Fear of Rejection Being married to my wife for 20 years, we’ve been through thick and thin together. Our current relationship is not as intimate as before. She used to be affectionate, but now she constantly rejects me. In the early days of our relationship, we were deeply in love. But now, she won’t even let me touch her because she says I snore. She even suggested sleeping in separate beds. Initially, I resisted but eventually started sleeping alone in the study to avoid disturbing her. However, this arrangement is not what I want, leading to many conflicts between us.

November 26, 2024 3 min read

The Easiest Way to Make Couples Drift Apart, Smart Women Never Touch, Foolish Women Keep Doing

Recently, I saw this on the internet: “All disappointments accumulate bit by bit. When enough disappointments gather, that person will leave.” Most women would say this to men because they believe if men don’t change or make too many mistakes, they will leave. But women’s actions can also hurt men’s feelings. In life, one hand alone cannot clap. Marriage requires effort from both sides. In this relationship, women surely make mistakes that lead to a breakup.

November 24, 2024 5 min read

Women Often Say These Things, Indicating They Have “Other Intentions” Early on, Don’t Be Careless

One term is called: Observing Words and Expressions. It means when we observe something or someone, we can discern what they are thinking through their words and facial expressions. In relationships, men and women think differently, so they also approach love differently. Women are more emotional, they speak more indirectly, so when women have other intentions in a relationship, they won’t say it directly. It’s common to see that when a man changes his mind, it happens instantly. This confuses women because yesterday everything was fine, a few days ago everything was good, and now suddenly he has changed his mind and wants to break up when he’s with someone else.

November 21, 2024 5 min read

Never Treat Your Wife Like “Family,” No Matter How Understanding She Is

When men are in love, they often use endearing terms like “baby,” “dear,” or “sweetheart” for women. But after marriage, these terms change to “wife” or “the kid’s mom.” In many families, couples don’t even address each other by name. The change in how they address each other signifies a shift in the relationship. From getting to know each other as lovers, to getting married, having children, and becoming life partners, the transition from romantic love to familial love can feel natural.

November 20, 2024 4 min read

When a Woman Changes Her Mind, There Are Three Major Signs, Don’t Be Unaware

Falling in love is an instant thing, and so is falling out of love. The moment you moved me, I admired you, my heart was touched, and you will always be in my heart. But if I feel you’re not as good as I thought, whether it’s your character or education, I’ll remove you from my heart from that moment on. Zhang Xiaojuan said, “Love starts with hope and ends with despair. When you give up, it means you no longer have any hope for me.”

November 20, 2024 4 min read

The Differences Between Ex-Husbands and Current Husbands? Three Remarried Women Speak the Truth

Leonidova once said: “The foundation of marriage is love, attachment, and respect.” For many marriages, this doesn’t seem to fit. Many women enter marriage full of joy, believing in love, only to find their dreams shattered by the reality of married life. Many women hoped to be the heroine of a fairy tale, to walk hand in hand with their beloved, supporting each other and receiving love from their man. But often, expectations lead to disappointment.

November 19, 2024 4 min read

“What Is It Like for Men to Marry a Beautiful Wife?” Three Married Men Speak Their Minds

A beautiful woman in a man’s eyes is captivating in every move. For men, marrying a beautiful woman is a lifelong dream. Men are visual creatures, especially when it comes to seeing a beauty, they can’t take their eyes off. Even when they have a partner by their side, they don’t hesitate to admire others. This behavior may upset their partners, but they do not care. Ancient poets were able to vividly describe the beauty of women. The allure of a beautiful woman on men is immense. Men who marry attractive wives become objects of envy for other men.

November 18, 2024 5 min read

If You Really Want to Find a Partner, Please Lower Your Standards First!

01 Many single people have probably heard their friends and family say, “Your standards are too high, that’s why you can’t find a partner.” Most people must have felt quite annoyed when hearing this: “How are my standards too high? Can’t I have some standards? Should I just settle for anyone when finding a partner?” Indeed, it’s normal to have standards when finding a partner, and one shouldn’t settle. Nevertheless, I want to advise everyone today, if you truly want to find a partner, then you need to lower your standards first!

November 18, 2024 6 min read

56-Year-Old Aunt’s Solo Road Trip Goes Viral: “I Can’t Divorce, But Let Me Escape for a While”

Yang Jiang once said, “The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others.” Online, a 56-year-old aunt who went on a solo road trip has become popular. In a video, she mentioned living with her husband under the arrangement of splitting expenses due to their different ideologies. For the sake of their children, she chose not to divorce. However, she felt unhappy due to the gap between her and her husband’s thoughts. Therefore, she decided to take a break and explore on her own.

November 17, 2024 4 min read

Being Overly Critical is Always the Biggest Taboo in Marriage

Marriage is the continuation of love, but it’s also quite different from love. In marriage, there’s a lot of mundane stuff like daily necessities and trivialities. It’s not easy to manage a relationship, and it’s even more challenging to manage a marriage. Many people, after enduring several years of courtship, finally step into marriage and the family they’ve long dreamed of. However, as the ordinary days pass by, the passion gradually fades, and married life becomes increasingly dull.

November 17, 2024 4 min read