Couples issues

Does Chatting with a Girl Every Day Make Her Like You?

Many guys are used to pursuing girls, and the most common approach is to chat with her every day. Is this really effective? I think at most, it just establishes attraction, but it’s still a long way from a committed relationship. To truly make a girl like you and establish a relationship with her, the following three levels of development are absolutely essential. 1. Foundational Development at the Attitude Level I believe that the most important aspect of attitude is the willingness to “express interest in the girl directly and quickly” and “not worry about losing or getting tangled up.”

December 6, 2024 4 min read

Understanding the Sunk Cost in Love

Leveraging Sunk Costs for Better Relationships In emotional reality shows, there’s a common phenomenon: knowing that you’re not happy in a relationship, you’re dissatisfied with many aspects of your partner, but you’re reluctant to break up. Do you still love them? No, you might even dislike them. So, what psychology makes a person reluctant to let go of a bad relationship? They might say, “After so many years, I’ve invested so much emotion, time, energy, and even money. If we break up now, it will all be for nothing.”

December 5, 2024 4 min read

Middle-Aged Crisis: Three Unavoidable “Disasters”

As people mature with age, they accumulate life experiences and eventually settle down. For most people, this happens in middle age. At this stage, many have their own families and stable careers, and their lives are on track. However, whether they’re happy or not is hard to generalize, as everyone defines happiness differently, and their lives are unique. When people reach middle age, they often face the so-called “disasters.” Basically, there are three unavoidable ones!

November 30, 2024 3 min read

Long-Term Separation, What Should a Man Do When He Misses His Wife? Three Men Speak Honestly

“Love is like chewing gum in the beginning; marriage is like chewing gum at the end.” Love can be sweet, but marriage often brings bitterness. Some couples live apart for extended periods after marriage, spending less time together than when they were dating. Women often ask men, “Why don’t you cherish me anymore? You had time for me during our dating days, why not now?” The truth is, after marriage, men aren’t avoiding their wives. Life gets busier, pressures mount, and the sweetness of marriage can turn sour.

November 29, 2024 3 min read

Four Characteristics of Women That Make Men “Addicted” in Relationships

In the world of relationships, men never stop pursuing. A woman must carry the charm that keeps a man chasing and addicted to her, to make him continuously pursue her without feeling tired and even without complaints. I often see women who are always surrounded by men, exuding an irresistible charm that keeps men hooked and addicted to them. These women possess qualities that make others very addicted to them.

November 28, 2024 2 min read

The Deepest Worries of Men in their 40s in Marriage Life—Three Men Revealed Their “Secrets”

Mr. Wang, Fear of Rejection Being married to my wife for 20 years, we’ve been through thick and thin together. Our current relationship is not as intimate as before. She used to be affectionate, but now she constantly rejects me. In the early days of our relationship, we were deeply in love. But now, she won’t even let me touch her because she says I snore. She even suggested sleeping in separate beds. Initially, I resisted but eventually started sleeping alone in the study to avoid disturbing her. However, this arrangement is not what I want, leading to many conflicts between us.

November 26, 2024 3 min read

The Easiest Way to Make Couples Drift Apart, Smart Women Never Touch, Foolish Women Keep Doing

Recently, I saw this on the internet: “All disappointments accumulate bit by bit. When enough disappointments gather, that person will leave.” Most women would say this to men because they believe if men don’t change or make too many mistakes, they will leave. But women’s actions can also hurt men’s feelings. In life, one hand alone cannot clap. Marriage requires effort from both sides. In this relationship, women surely make mistakes that lead to a breakup.

November 24, 2024 5 min read

Women Often Say These Things, Indicating They Have “Other Intentions” Early on, Don’t Be Careless

One term is called: Observing Words and Expressions. It means when we observe something or someone, we can discern what they are thinking through their words and facial expressions. In relationships, men and women think differently, so they also approach love differently. Women are more emotional, they speak more indirectly, so when women have other intentions in a relationship, they won’t say it directly. It’s common to see that when a man changes his mind, it happens instantly. This confuses women because yesterday everything was fine, a few days ago everything was good, and now suddenly he has changed his mind and wants to break up when he’s with someone else.

November 21, 2024 5 min read

Never Treat Your Wife Like “Family,” No Matter How Understanding She Is

When men are in love, they often use endearing terms like “baby,” “dear,” or “sweetheart” for women. But after marriage, these terms change to “wife” or “the kid’s mom.” In many families, couples don’t even address each other by name. The change in how they address each other signifies a shift in the relationship. From getting to know each other as lovers, to getting married, having children, and becoming life partners, the transition from romantic love to familial love can feel natural.

November 20, 2024 4 min read

When a Woman Changes Her Mind, There Are Three Major Signs, Don’t Be Unaware

Falling in love is an instant thing, and so is falling out of love. The moment you moved me, I admired you, my heart was touched, and you will always be in my heart. But if I feel you’re not as good as I thought, whether it’s your character or education, I’ll remove you from my heart from that moment on. Zhang Xiaojuan said, “Love starts with hope and ends with despair. When you give up, it means you no longer have any hope for me.”

November 20, 2024 4 min read