Couples issues

How Long Can Men Endure Long-Distance Marriage? The Answers of 3 Men Are Very Realistic

They say, “Home cannot hold the body, and faraway places cannot hold the soul.” With the development of society, the speed of development between cities and rural areas is seriously unbalanced. Many people choose to work away from home in pursuit of better material conditions. Working in developed cities has many benefits, such as exposure to a broader world, learning new things, making more friends, having better development opportunities, and being able to earn more money for a better material life for themselves and their families. So, many people leave their hometowns to work elsewhere.

November 1, 2025 5 min read

The True Sign of Not Letting Go of Someone is Living Like Them

“In reality, few men understand this truth. They pursue women thinking they are the best in the world, willing to give them everything. But once they have them, things change. Most of the time, it’s the men who pursue women. However, in the end, it’s the women who are hurt and left disappointed.” Some men start off thinking a woman is their whole world, only to want her to leave later on.

October 24, 2025 4 min read

In Marriage, Living Apart, How Long Can Men Endure? The Answer Will Surprise You

With the development of society nowadays, many people are living apart. This phenomenon used to be uncommon, but now it’s becoming more common. Recently, while looking for a job, I discovered a requirement in job postings: Both husband and wife must live apart. Seeing this requirement made me realize that the situation where a couple is not together is becoming more common. During the days when two people are apart, they always miss each other, unless there is no love between them.

October 18, 2025 5 min read

Marriages That Have Experienced Betrayal: Healing Is Possible, Restoring to the Original State Is…

For those who have experienced betrayal in a relationship, the initial desire is often to work hard and repair the relationship, hoping that things can go back to how they were in the beginning. However, the reality is that, no matter how much effort is made, and no matter how much the relationship is rebuilt, it can only be restored to a certain extent, but it will never truly be as it was in the beginning.

October 11, 2025 6 min read

Love Is a Test of Human Nature

Emotions are fluid, and a man’s affection for you is also fluid. It’s normal for his feelings to fluctuate over time. If you excessively view things in black and white in a relationship, always questioning whether he loves you, you’re undervaluing yourself. Expecting a partner to always provide a perfect experience is unrealistic. Just because certain behaviors don’t fully satisfy you doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you. A man’s actions shouldn’t be solely categorized as loving or not. If he does something that displeases you, set boundaries and communicate. If there’s no adjustment, consider whether his behavior aligns with your values rather than jumping to conclusions about his love for you.

October 2, 2025 2 min read

Love vs. Reality: The Test of Marriage

Sukhomlinov once said, “True love not only requires love, but also demands insight into each other’s inner world.” When it comes to love, we all make different choices, but marriage is a big gamble, so we should consider it carefully. Only when love meets reality can you truly feel if a man is sincere towards you. Leila and John met on a dating platform. Leila was initially attracted by John’s humor. They hit it off online and had a good impression when they met in person. After a year of dating, Leila felt it was time to get married.

September 17, 2025 4 min read

How to Test How Much a Man Loves You: Anger Reveals It All

Once on a show, an expert said: “To know if money matters to a woman, just date her once. To know if a man loves you, just make him angry once.” Human nature can’t withstand tests. Don’t casually test someone, as love can’t withstand tests sometimes. If you’re not sure, don’t test a man. Sometimes testing someone is simple. It can tell you how much a man loves you just by making him angry.

September 10, 2025 5 min read

She’s “Scolding” You, But She’s Actually Showing Her Love.

The Subtext is: “We’re Destined to Be Together” Women and men think differently. If a man has to travel from point A to point B, he’ll choose the shortest route. But a woman might choose to go from A to C, then to D, and finally arrive at point B. It might seem roundabout, even confusing, but that’s just how women are. They often want something but won’t say it directly. For example, on holidays, they might want a gift from a man, but if he asks what they want, they’ll usually say no.

September 4, 2025 4 min read

The Art of Nurturing a Marriage: Signs and Selflessness

In this lifetime, there are only a few things that truly determine our happiness. Marriage is definitely one of them. When you think back to when you got married, you probably thought it was all about finding happiness. You believed that marriage would bring you happiness. But later on, so many people found themselves facing endless pain and couldn’t break free from it. That’s when they realized how deeply a marriage can affect their entire life.

September 3, 2025 5 min read

Three Years After Divorce, the Man Who Wanted His Mom but Not His Wife Finally Remarried

As the old saying goes, every family has its own difficult scripture to read. When faced with marital conflicts, many families are at a loss. Marriage is not only a matter between two people but also a union between two families. Marrying the right person can bring a woman a lifetime of happiness, but marrying the wrong person can turn marriage into a form of torture. Recently, a friend shared her emotional story with me, and here it is:

August 26, 2025 4 min read