Couples issues

If You Notice These Signs in Your Marriage, It’s Time to Rethink Your Relationship

Nietzsche once said, “Marriage is unhappy not because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of friendship.” Friendship requires mutual understanding, communication, and help. Without these, friendship is difficult to maintain. Marriage is the same. To achieve happiness, it requires joint effort and maintenance from both parties. Marriage hates laziness; the more you neglect it, the more it will make you feel unhappy. The emotions between spouses need to be maintained in a balanced and stable state. If you ignore it when you’re busy and try to pick it up when you’re free, it might be too late.

February 13, 2025 4 min read

How Do I Forgive Him After His Infidelity ?

Yesterday, I received a plea for help from my friend Jenny. She said her boyfriend cheated on her, and she can’t let go but doesn’t know how to forgive him? I truly understand what it feels like to be betrayed by a beloved person. I remember, not long after breaking up with my first love, he accepted another girl’s pursuit. Even though we had already broken up, we had been together for several years, and this carefree behavior made me feel that we really couldn’t be together again. It made me feel betrayed.

February 10, 2025 8 min read

What Makes Extramarital Affairs Harder Than Normal Relationships?

Unveiling the Truth: The Reality of Women in Extramarital Affairs Women’s Extramarital Affairs, Are You Ready for It? When writing about gender emotions, we naturally cannot avoid the topic of extramarital affairs. In the future, I will discuss extramarital affairs from different perspectives. Today, let’s talk about the differences between extramarital affairs and normal relationships, especially for women. Why do I advise women to be extra cautious when facing extramarital affairs?

February 6, 2025 7 min read

Encountering Infidelity, the Most Perplexing Issue

When a marriage encounters infidelity, a series of problems arise, each one trapping you. This complexity in dealing with and handling the affair is beyond the capability of most people. For the betrayed party, the four most concerning and difficult questions are: First, Does he still love me? Does he still have feelings for me? The answer to this question is, there is still some love and feelings. However, you must understand that:

February 5, 2025 4 min read

Why Can’t You Find the Right Person?

For many people, finding a good partner is difficult. They always seem to meet the “wrong” person. Yes, they continue to date, but each time they end up in unsatisfactory relationships. In my view, this is determined by the following reasons. 1. Expecting love that isn’t meant for them Some people are addicted to the pursuit. They love the thrill of trying the forbidden. They often love those who don’t pay attention to them, have no interest in them, or are even bad for them.

February 4, 2025 3 min read

What’s Behind a Woman’s Indifference to Food, Clothing, and Makeup?

My mom once said: “A woman’s life is never easy. Her heart belongs to her parents, her body belongs to her husband, and her time belongs to her children. She’s busy taking care of everything, and the only thing that’s truly hers is the wrinkles on her face.” I didn’t understand the meaning of these words when I was young, but as I grew up, I realized how true they are.

February 1, 2025 5 min read

Why I Stopped Replying to Your Messages (Very Realistic)

You sent a string of question marks, asking why I didn’t reply to your messages. Initially, I didn’t want to answer you, but after some thought, I decided to let you understand my perspective since we’re friends. I’m not unwilling to continue our friendship, but reality is that it’s impossible to continue. Maybe I have high expectations for friends, and the things you said didn’t interest me, while my words were often interrupted by you.

January 28, 2025 6 min read

The Dark Side of Love: Understanding Emotional Blackmail in Relationships

In the Name of Love: Kidnapping and Shackles “You don’t agree with me, you don’t love me enough…” “I work myself to death every day, all for the sake of providing for you, and this is how you treat me…” “All of this is for your own good…” “If you do this, I will never speak to you again…” These slogans using “love” as a justification may be familiar to us, and we usually associate love with delicacy, care, and tenderness. However, many times, it can also become a heavy shackle, suffocating us and causing us to bleed. If these words came from a stranger, we might fight back or ignore them, but once they come from those we love and who claim to love us, we often end up feeling helpless, resentful, and forced to compromise. Then we understand that some forms of love can indeed be very burdensome.

January 26, 2025 4 min read

Long-term Separation, Will Men Stay Loyal to Their Wives? Three Husbands Tell the Truth

Recently during Valentine’s Day, many long-distance couples made plans to meet up. At the flower shop, you could see men crowded with big bouquets, rushing to their distant lovers. Not just at the flower shop, but also at the airport, many people were seen hurrying towards their partners with flowers in hand. Seeing this, one can’t help but feel envious but also wonder: “Will men stay loyal to their wives in long-term separation?”

January 25, 2025 4 min read

How to Seduce Men: Just Pay Attention to These Two Things

“Testing gold with fire, testing women with gold, testing men with women.” Even the most handsome man can’t resist a woman’s tenderness and charm. Some men may seem immune to women, but that just means they haven’t met a formidable woman yet. With the right woman, any man could easily fall for her. When a man pursues a woman, he needs to be strategic. If a woman loves you but you approach her the wrong way, her perception of you may plummet.

January 24, 2025 3 min read