Couples issues

Secrets to Keeping a Man: Lessons Learned from 30 Years of Marriage by My Mother

My Mother’s 30 Years of Marriage Experience Taught Me: The Best Way to Captivate a Man’s Heart, and It’s Actually Just One Thing Yang Jiang once said, “True love only happens once in a lifetime, and one heart can only belong to one person.” Every woman wants to be the only one in a man’s heart, but how can she do that? Each person may have a different answer to this question.

December 27, 2025 5 min read

When a Woman Says “Going to Sleep,” Wise Men Respond Like This

Whether our relationship started with love at first sight or developed over time, we still need continuous communication to strengthen our bond. A good appearance may attract attention, but effective communication is crucial for the success of a relationship. Some men complain about women being difficult to understand, changing their minds frequently, and abruptly saying “I’m tired, going to sleep” after a brief chat. Half an hour after exchanging goodnight messages, she posts on social media again.

December 25, 2025 4 min read

Why do Good Girls Always Fall for Jerks?

The reason why someone is attractive is because their presence holds a rewarding significance for others. In Haruki Murakami’s classic novel “Norwegian Wood,” there is a character named Nagasawa. He is a very unique person. For example, he comes from a wealthy family, is intelligent and studious. While other students were busy enjoying themselves, he was already self-studying various languages, working towards his goal of becoming a diplomat. Not only that, he is also responsible and charming. When there are conflicts among students, he steps in to resolve them. When he speaks in a crowd, everyone is drawn to him.

December 23, 2025 5 min read

After Divorce, Who Will Regret—Men or Women? Different Answers from Men and Women

When it comes to marriage, we all start with beautiful expectations. However, marriage is full of ups and downs. Not many men and women can truly understand its essence and still be willing to persevere. Those who have divorced think they can choose another way of life and feel liberated. However, not everyone feels liberated after divorce. Sometimes, divorce is a regret for someone. Given the chance, who wouldn’t want a happy and fulfilling family? Who would choose divorce as the outcome unless absolutely necessary?

December 18, 2025 3 min read

Why Can Some People Maintain Long-term Attraction to the Opposite Sex?

The Difference Between Value and Attraction in Relationships Some people can maintain long-term attraction in relationships, while others lose their charm after a while, and some fail to attract the opposite sex at all. What exactly is the secret for those who can sustain long-term attraction? The Difference Between “Contributing Value” and “Attraction” Some say that providing value to the other person is essential for maintaining a long-term relationship, such as providing financial and career assistance, companionship and care in life, emotional support and comfort, helping with filial piety, raising children, and so on.

December 12, 2025 4 min read

The Most Useful 8 Tips for Dating

Don’t date someone who is emotionally abusive. Once you notice a flaw in your boyfriend’s character or negative habits, cut ties quickly. Many girls tend to soften their hearts and hold onto the hope that their boyfriends will change. But can a person’s nature really change so easily? If there’s violence once, there will be violence again. You won’t be the one who changes him. Once you start comparing with your boyfriend, the relationship will be almost over. Don’t compare yourself and him with other couples. Don’t say things like, “Someone’s boyfriend gave her a sports car for Valentine’s Day,” or “Someone’s boyfriend threw a proposal party.” Just vent to your friends about it. If you’re not happy, just find someone else. It’s unfair to force your boyfriend into a difficult position.

December 2, 2025 4 min read

Don’t Wait Until You Lose Them to Appreciate, the One You Can Rely On Is the One Who Dislikes You…

Qian Zhongshu once wrote in his book “The Besieged City”: “Those who are trapped in the city want to escape, while those outside want to rush in. This is the case with marriage and career, as people’s desires often contradict each other.” When it comes to love and marriage, we often use the phrase “cherish” to advise others and ourselves. Because we all know that the future is full of uncertainties. Even if two people love each other today and vow to be together for life, they may still drift apart tomorrow.

November 26, 2025 4 min read

Love is a Two-Person Thing

In the world of love, it’s like drinking water—you know how it feels. Let’s talk about Sarah and her husband’s love story. Everyone knows he used to beat her up. Everyone knows he cheated on her when she was pregnant. Everyone tells her to leave the guy who hurt her. But Sarah’s response is always the same: “You’re overthinking it. He’s good to me, he never hit me, we’re happy, why would I leave him?!”

November 23, 2025 5 min read

The True Meaning Behind “Being Tough as a Mother”

In this world, every day someone is giving you a lot of chicken soup. Originally, the dog-blooded life, under the chicken soup, forcibly turned into chicken blood. Many women, after becoming mothers, relied on the standard “being strong for motherhood” chicken soup to bear all the grievances and suffering. Is it really “strong”? Actually, not at all. If they were really “strong,” how could they endure so much pain and suffering in marriage…

November 13, 2025 4 min read

Three Nicknames That Can Make Women’s Hearts Flutter, the More Proficiently Used, the Higher…

On the variety show “Love Defense War,” there was a male guest who said some rather harsh words once he went on stage. To the female guests, the most annoying part of what he said was how he addressed them. Later, the host mediated the conflict between the two and found that they indeed had many issues in their lives. These issues often stemmed from the men not addressing the women properly, making the women feel especially uncomfortable.

November 9, 2025 5 min read