Couples issues

The Biggest Pain for Younger Wife and Older Husband Marriages? 3 Women Speak the Truth

As society evolves, people are becoming more open about their relationships. At the same time, some are more accepting in how they approach relationships. In the past, it was common for young couples to get married. Nowadays, a young woman can marry an older man. Many say women marry older men for money, but some do it for love. Regardless, a woman marrying a significantly older man faces her own pressures.

March 27, 2025 2 min read

Grandma Says: Giving Dowry is Necessary, and the Real Beneficiary of Marriage is the Man

Marriage and whether to give dowry have always been a controversial topic. Most men are against it, thinking it’s the 21st century and women advocate for equality, so why is equality suddenly not mentioned when it comes to marriage? On the other hand, women believe that dowry represents respect and sincerity from the man’s family, and it’s a form of security for themselves. Through dowry, they can see if the man’s feelings are genuine.

March 26, 2025 5 min read

Do Men Miss Their Ex-wives After Divorce? Insights from Three Men

A few years ago, there was an advertisement slogan that said: “Fate is predetermined, but happiness is up to you.” Many people get together with someone due to fate, feeling incredibly happy and fortunate in the beginning. However, over time, things fade, and if a marriage isn’t nurtured well, it may come to an end. It’s often easier to conquer than to maintain, just like relationships. Sometimes, a simple gathering or trip can bring two people together. But staying together requires effort.

March 17, 2025 4 min read

Sustaining the Spark: Strategies for Prolonging the Honeymoon Phase

Embracing the Honeymoon Period: More Than Just Warmth Men need love in their lives, but they don’t constantly need to feel it like women do. For men, love is just a part of life, while for most women, it is their entire life. In the development of emotions, each person generally goes through four different stages: the honeymoon period, power struggle period, integration period, and indifference period. The honeymoon period is essentially the feeling of freshness, and maintaining this freshness is crucial. So, during this stage, the most important thing for women is not to invest, but to avoid the honeymoon pitfalls.

March 16, 2025 7 min read

Red Flags: When Your Boyfriend Shows These 3 Signs, He’s Definitely a Jerk

A lot of people move away from home to chase their dreams and get the life they want. Living on your own is hard. It’s tough to deal with the loneliness and boredom. When you get home from work, it’s cold and empty. You wish there was a warm meal waiting for you and someone you love at the table. Even if that’s not there, you just want someone to talk to, someone who cares about you, to make this strange city feel a little bit nicer.

March 15, 2025 4 min read

May You Meet Your Soulmate in This Life

We often find ourselves in certain situations but never truly pay attention to them—especially when it comes to emotions and marriage. What is love? What is marriage? What kind of love and marriage are we in? What kind of love and marriage do we hope for? These are probably questions we have never really asked ourselves or made efforts for our own happiness in love and marriage. When we are hurt in a relationship, where do we focus our attention? It’s crucial—many people remain trapped in a relationship because they overlook taking charge of their own lives and destinies, relying all their hopes on another person.

March 10, 2025 3 min read

The Woman Who Was Always Criticized Chose to Divorce After Her Child’s College Entrance Exam

Marriage can be a source of happiness if you marry the right person, but it can also become a torment if you choose the wrong one. For a woman, marriage is crucial as it determines the course of her life. My friend, Jane, decided to divorce her husband right after their child completed the college entrance exam this year. Many people couldn’t understand her decision. They thought it was foolish to choose divorce at this point.

March 8, 2025 3 min read

The Signs of a Woman Who Truly Wants to Break Up

The Evolution of Emotions: From Wanting to be Loved to Wanting to Leave Women in love are always difficult to remain rational. Often because of a man’s action, a word, or a behavior, she becomes very hysterical. She mentions breaking up, keeps shouting, constantly asks the man to love her more, not to ignore her needs, expresses her emotions to the man, and sends many texts. I believe many men have experienced a woman who always talks about breaking up but actually doesn’t want to, she just wants attention, hoping the man will treat her better.

March 7, 2025 5 min read

Women Should Never Initiate Divorce, Divorcing Without a Principle is Very Hard for Women!

Love is the most extraordinary journey in life, holding hands is a very special memory. For some, holding hands leads to becoming lovers, partners, and lifelong family. For others, although they hold hands, become lovers, and partners, they ultimately do not become lifelong family. Everyone’s understanding of marriage is different. If we ask what people gain or lose from marriage, we believe different people will have different answers. Those who feel happy in marriage will feel that marriage provides a permanent safe haven for themselves and their loved ones, and that it continuously elevates their love. Those who feel unhappy in marriage may regret, saying that marriage is tiring and makes them lose their youth. And for those who divorce, it brings another kind of regret when looking back at the marriage!

March 4, 2025 5 min read

When Flirting with Middle-Aged Women, Be Mindful of These Three Things to Avoid Undoing Your…

“Men deceive teenage girls with sweet words; men deceive women in their twenties with flowers; men deceive women in their thirties with thoughtfulness.” As women age, they become wiser. With each passing year, their wisdom grows. Middle-aged women have been through a lot in life and prefer tangible things over intangible ones. They grasp onto what they can, knowing they can’t afford to be reckless anymore. They understand their desires and can analyze others. Pursuing a middle-aged woman is challenging because they are cautious and mindful due to their age and experiences.

February 25, 2025 3 min read