Couples issues

Good Spousal Relationship, Not About Traditional Gender Roles

In ancient times, the concept of the husband working outside and the wife managing the household was considered the norm. If a woman appeared in public, it was seen as a disgrace to the man and she would be criticized and looked down upon by others. Nowadays, with gender equality, many women have become the pillars of their families. However, due to the need for family stability and the traditional roles of childbearing and nursing, many families still follow the pattern of the husband working inside and the wife working outside.

June 18, 2024 5 min read

When a Woman Comes Home, These Behaviors Often Mean She’s Seeing Someone Else

There’s an old saying, “Onlookers see more than players.” In this society, when one spouse is seeing someone else, it’s always the outsiders who know first, and the husband or wife is usually the last to find out. These so-called “onlookers” don’t know how to warn the other party to protect themselves, or how to prevent them from getting hurt, so they usually choose to kindly keep it a secret.

June 15, 2024 5 min read

Signals that Someone Truly Likes You

In life, everyone hopes that someone will like them. Of course, it’s not just casual remarks, but genuine feelings that make your heart race and want a serious future together. In reality, many “likes” are just superficial and fleeting, not the genuine kind that comes from the heart. Encountering such superficial affection may make you feel loved momentarily, but it’s often short-lived. Pretense can only last for a while. Once they get what they want, they’ll quickly change, leaving you heartbroken.

June 13, 2024 2 min read

Older Single Women Who Are Unwilling to Get Married, There Is Only One Reason

I once saw a saying online: “Not dating doesn’t mean no one is interested, it just means the right one hasn’t come yet, so I should wait cleanly and openly for him to appear.” I resonated with this saying because those who treat relationships casually are the ones most serious about them. Often, not dating doesn’t mean we have no options, but rather we are waiting for that unique person.

June 12, 2024 4 min read

Signs of Lack of Interest from Blind Date

When single men and women reach a certain age and don’t have suitable partners around them, they may have to resort to blind dates. Maybe they actively go on blind dates to find their destined one, hoping for a successful match. Or maybe they feel pressured by those around them and reluctantly agree to meet some potential partners, hoping to get lucky. Regardless of the reasons, blind dating has become very common.

June 10, 2024 4 min read

Why is it Hard for Midway Couples to Connect? Listen to Three Experienced People Have to Say

“We can never go back.” In real life, we all face marriage with expectations, but often love leads to sorrow, and not all relationships last forever. After experiencing a failed marriage, we become more cautious about love, afraid to easily give our hearts. Why is it difficult for midway couples to connect emotionally? Let’s hear from three experienced individuals. Miss Smith, 32 years old It’s been three months since my divorce. After the divorce, I met him. Even though I thought we would get along well, we had many conflicts, especially regarding our child. I chose not to have more children out of fear for my child’s safety, causing a major disagreement between us. He saw it as selfish, but my intention was solely for the child. This led to conflicts and eventually a cold war. Later, I realized that remarried couples also have their own hesitations, with children being a significant obstacle.

February 21, 2024 3 min read

When a Woman’s Heart Dies, She Doesn’t Quarrel, But Does These Three Things Silently

You may have heard this saying before, and it’s true: making a scene is dependence, while being polite is being distant. When a woman deeply loves you, she will be willing to rely on you. But when a woman is utterly disappointed, she will slowly drift away from you. What does marriage feel like? A son once asked his mother this question. Instead of answering directly, she deleted all the songs from her son’s iPhone, leaving only one on infinite loop until the battery died.

February 20, 2024 4 min read

To be honest, most couples settle for each other

A fulfilling marriage only exists when both the husband and wife turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to each other. As Franklin said, “Before marriage, keep your eyes wide open; after marriage, half shut.” Life is never perfect. We all seek partial contentment. Love and marriage have their beautiful sides, but they are not flawless. Just like precious gems, human emotions also have their flaws. Perhaps you always see other marriages as perfect, with harmonious couples, while only feeling dissatisfied with your own family.

February 19, 2024 4 min read

The Toughest “Three Hurdles” for Remarried Couples, Failure to Overcome Will Lead to Divorce

They say it’s easy to meet but hard to stay together. In real life, everyone looks forward to a happy marriage. Sometimes, love isn’t as perfect as we imagine. Some people stay with us for a lifetime, while others are only meant for a part of our journey. Often, we choose to part ways due to various arguments and conflicts in life. Separation may not always be a bad thing. It can lead to a happier life for both if it’s the right decision. Learning to let go instead of letting a relationship drain us is an important choice we face in relationships.

February 18, 2024 4 min read

Women Who Are Truly “Devoted” Only “Fall” For One Person

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. We were college classmates and our relationship was pretty good back then. But after graduation, we were sent to different cities, so we became a long-distance couple. Maybe because we saw a lot of people, our relationship got weaker. I tried really hard, but it was no use. Now we’ve chosen to break up. Everyone has different choices in love, but I want to say that women who are truly devoted often only fall for one person. Only devoted women understand these truths.

February 17, 2024 4 min read