Betrayal

Encountering Infidelity, It Can Be a New Starting Point in Life

Encountering betrayal in a relationship can indeed affect the course of one’s life, but such impact may not always be negative. While enduring the pain and torment at the moment, many people have actually embarked on a new journey through the baptism of betrayal. Looking at it from a different perspective, without the betrayal, many people might have led a monotonous life, following the same routine every day, seemingly stable but lacking passion and vision for the future. Days passing by in repetition, just waiting to grow old.

October 13, 2024 3 min read

“What Makes a Mistress Better Than a Wife?” Married Men Tell the Truth

Three Miao said, “If love doesn’t fall into the practical aspects of life, such as wearing clothes, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it won’t last long.” Maybe someone will say that these things in life are just small matters. Love can overcome everything, so what’s the big deal about these insignificant things? As long as two people love each other, these things won’t matter. In reality, talking about love without considering life is unrealistic. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be so many people who were once in love but ended up breaking up, and there wouldn’t be those who betrayed their marriages.

October 12, 2024 4 min read

The Unfiltered Voices of Women: Understanding the Dynamics of Extramarital Affairs

Why Do Women Have Extramarital Affairs? Listen to Their Truth! Understanding the Reasons Behind Women’s Infidelity in Marriage Marriage is the union of love and intimacy. If a woman marries a man she loves and leads a happy life, she won’t want to betray him. When a woman has an affair, it’s often because she feels neglected by her husband, thinks he no longer loves her, or is disappointed in the marriage.

August 8, 2024 4 min read

How Could You Not Feel Hatred for Someone Who Betrayed You?

Stay away from those who easily advise you to be generous, so that you won’t be struck by lightning because of them. This sentence actually makes a lot of sense. Encountering betrayal in a relationship, it’s normal to feel hatred and a desire for revenge. This is a normal reaction for anyone—to be hurt by someone for no reason, even a Buddha would probably roar like a lion. However, in reality, there are always so many people comforting you: Let it go, don’t dwell on it, why carry so much hatred all the time, why are you so narrow-minded, why not give others a chance…

August 1, 2024 5 min read

When a Woman Comes Home, These Behaviors Often Mean She’s Seeing Someone Else

There’s an old saying, “Onlookers see more than players.” In this society, when one spouse is seeing someone else, it’s always the outsiders who know first, and the husband or wife is usually the last to find out. These so-called “onlookers” don’t know how to warn the other party to protect themselves, or how to prevent them from getting hurt, so they usually choose to kindly keep it a secret.

June 15, 2024 5 min read

When Someone Has a Crush on You, They Might Use “Annoying” Ways to Get Your Attention

What does it feel like to have a crush on someone? Many people have experienced this feeling. It’s like holding something precious, treating it with the utmost care. You want to show it off, but you’re scared of being discovered. You want to shout your love from the rooftops, but you have to keep it a secret. You become timid and shy in front of the person you like. When we fall in love, our hearts become restless.

June 14, 2024 5 min read

How to Heal the Trauma of Emotional Betrayal

Experiencing emotional betrayal can be incredibly painful. How to heal the trauma left by this emotional wound is a task that every betrayed individual must face head-on, without avoiding it. Healing from emotional trauma is not necessarily tied to marriage. Whether you try to salvage the marriage or firmly decide on a divorce, the pain is inevitable. The healing of this pain is not directly linked to the outcome of the marriage.

June 9, 2024 3 min read

People Who Genuinely Love You Will Never Do These Three Things

Relationship experts say many people claim to love their partners but end up hurting them. When we were young, we paid attention to what someone said to us. As we grow older, we focus on their actions. Men may use sweet words to deceive young girls, but to win over a woman in her thirties, they need sincerity. As time passes, we realize that if someone truly loves you, they won’t do certain things to hurt you.

June 8, 2024 2 min read

Facing Emotional Betrayal, You Need to Find Inner Strength

When emotional betrayal occurs, a person’s inner self is actually weak and powerless. On one hand, the betrayal hurts the soul; on the other hand, it makes you feel hopeless about the future. So, no matter what the outcome of this emotional experience is, the first thing to resolve is the issue of inner energy. In other words, how can you inject energy into your inner self and make yourself strong enough to face all this?

February 13, 2024 4 min read

Don’t Treat Emotions as the Only Path to Happiness After Betrayal

Once someone experiences betrayal in a relationship, they start to see things differently. Like how they face the person who hurt them, the meaning of marriage, and what emotions really are. From a certain perspective, the more you learn about these aspects, the more you reshape your inner self. This experience becomes more meaningful. When this meaning surpasses a certain level, the ultimate outcome of the marriage or relationship becomes less important. You’ve already gained what you needed, and that’s sufficient.

February 11, 2024 4 min read