A Truly Noble Woman Avoids Three Topics When Chatting with the Opposite Sex
William Shakespeare once said, “Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.” Don’t just settle for anyone out of loneliness. It’s unfair to both parties and lacks responsibility to seek a lover just for the sake of it. A confidant is better than a lover.
Even though these words are from Shakespeare’s play, they are still relevant today. Women shouldn’t get into a relationship out of loneliness. When in a relationship, they must take responsibility for themselves and the other person.
A noble woman knows what kind of person she wants and when to keep her distance from certain individuals. This is what makes a person truly noble.
If a woman isn’t interested in a man, they should steer clear of certain topics during conversations. This prevents misunderstandings and ensures respect.
Ambiguous Topics
A woman with her own thoughts won’t engage in ambiguous conversations with the opposite sex unless they are her boyfriend or husband. Many men enjoy teasing women with ambiguous words. Some women, lacking self-respect, go along with it.
When a man praises a woman during a conversation but speaks ill of her to his friends later, it shows his disrespect and lack of regard for her.
I knew a colleague in a similar situation. She enjoyed using ambiguous language with male colleagues, thinking they loved her. As the ambiguous conversations increased, she chatted with male colleagues late into the night.
Once, these male colleagues shared their chats with others during a dinner outing. This incident spread at their workplace, leading to gossip and ultimately her resignation.
Women should learn to reject advances made with frivolous language. Failing to do so will only hurt them in the end.
Personal Privacy
A noble woman knows how to protect her privacy and respects others’ privacy. It’s important to maintain a boundary in conversations to avoid misunderstandings.
In college, a woman’s constant probing about personal matters led a male friend to believe she loved him. However, when he expressed his feelings, she rejected him. This rejection led to him spreading rumors about her, tarnishing her reputation.
Women should be cautious in conversations. Sharing personal details or prying into others’ lives can create misunderstandings and lead to unwanted advances.
Discussing Income
Some women inquire about a person’s income right from the start, especially during blind dates. Using wealth to measure someone’s worth or a relationship can lead to disrespect.
While everyone appreciates wealth, being too direct about it can be off-putting. Avoid discussing income with someone you’re casually chatting with, as it can create awkward situations.
A woman shouldn’t focus too much on income when talking with someone they like. It can give the impression of being materialistic and lead to being looked down upon.
Remember, there’s a time and place to learn about someone’s income. Avoid being too direct in conversations as it can backfire.
In conclusion, communication is an art. Knowing what to say and what to avoid can make a significant difference in how you are perceived. A noble woman understands the importance of tactful conversations and knows when to speak and when to stay silent.
