3 Common Breakup Tactics Used by Scumbags, Girls Beware
What is a “scumbag”? According to the encyclopedia, it refers to a man who is selfish, good at taking, irresponsible, and plays with other people’s feelings.
During the dating process, some women, due to bad luck, inadvertently encounter these immature, cowardly, and disrespectful men. The reason these men are called scumbags is not just hearsay. You can tell by their behavior and attitude when breaking up.
When women want to break up, they generally do it decisively, clearly stating the reasons and ending the relationship. But scumbags may not say a word and simply disappear without a trace. They may not break up face-to-face or over the phone but instead inform the woman unilaterally via FB, saying “Let’s break up,” and then proceed to block her. If the woman asks “Why?” she receives a system prompt saying “You are no longer friends.” Scumbags like to use unclear attitudes. Women who can’t see through these men’s intentions may choose to wait because they’re reluctant to leave, only to be hurt deeply.
In fact, scumbags have similar tactics when breaking up with you, usually falling into these three categories.
1. Wanting to Be Friends Again
When a scumbag wants to break up with you, in order not to appear heartless, he will want you to be his girlfriend again. On one hand, although he no longer loves you and wants to break up, he’s afraid of not finding someone better or more suitable than you, so he keeps you on the back burner. On the other hand, even if he has no intention of getting back together, he still wants to get warmth and support from you. When he’s upset or frustrated, he can come to you for comfort and help.
When you encounter someone like this, distance yourself from him immediately!
2. Forcing You to Break Up with Cold Violence
From being hot and cold towards you to being completely indifferent, even if the intention to break up is clear, scumbags won’t easily say it. They will continue to be indifferent until you can’t take it anymore and finally ask for a breakup. Then they’ll act as if they’re the ones who have been hurt, successfully freeing themselves from you.
This method is a win-win for them. First, they didn’t quarrel with you or mention breaking up; second, their image and reputation remain unaffected, and they are still seen as the good man who deeply loves his girlfriend. People may even feel sorry for him: How could such a good man end up with such an unreasonable girlfriend?
3. Breaking Up Without Meeting You
Another tactic frequently used by scumbags is to break up with you without meeting in person, using text messages, FB, or other methods. These people like to avoid problems and can’t face themselves or you directly.
These scumbags are cowardly, afraid to face reality, and selfishly disregard your feelings. In their minds, as long as they achieve their goal of breaking up, your feelings don’t matter to them. Such men are undoubtedly scumbags.
